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Q&A with J: “Is It Okay for Him to Please Himself While Thinking of Me?”

Today’s question is from a wife who struggles with postpartum blues. At the time she wrote, she was physically and emotionally unable to engage in sexual intimacy with her husband. I just had baby number 4 . . . I have really struggled with postpartum blues this time. I’ve been trying to communicate my needs […]

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Two Wives & Candid Conversation about Masturbation

On a sexuality blog, it should be no surprise that I would eventually get around to discussing masturbation. There are heated opinions all along the continuum from “What’s the big deal?” to “Never, never, no, never!” I realize that I’m wading into potentially deep water here. So what better way to face a possible tidal

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Two Wives & Candid Conversation about Masturbation

On a sexuality blog, it should be no surprise that I would eventually get around to discussing masturbation. There are heated opinions all along the continuum from “What’s the big deal?” to “Never, never, no, never!” I realize that I’m wading into potentially deep water here. So what better way to face a possible tidal

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