Comments on: The Punctuation of a Kiss https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 30 Aug 2016 01:06:56 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.4 By: When His Kiss Tastes Bad | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-16233 Tue, 13 May 2014 01:59:33 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-16233 […] kissing generally, I did a series on the loveliness of lips locking: In Celebration of the Kiss; The Punctuation of a Kiss; and A Little Instruction for the […]

]]> By: A Little Instruction for the Kiss | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-16221 Tue, 13 May 2014 01:51:55 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-16221 […] my last two posts, I talked about how we need to focus on kissing and some different types of kissing.  Finally, here are a few tips for fantastic, fun-filled, […]

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-214 Tue, 09 Aug 2011 14:02:23 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-214 Anonymous – Sorry for the delay, as I was out of town for a few days! Since you used to kiss passionately, you probably just need to rekindle that flame that existed before. Try cuddling up with your honey and say something like, “Remember the way we used to kiss? That made my hair stand on end! I’d like to revisit that.” See what he says. You could even throw in a specific memory based on a place or time that was especially fabulous.

Or just initiate the kissing. Announce that you want to make out tonight before any clothes come off or straddle his lap and start the smooching. He might be pleasantly surprised!

It takes effort to keep up the romance and passion that seemed to come so easily at the beginning. But it’s well worth it! Best wishes!

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-210 Sat, 06 Aug 2011 12:39:45 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-210 Some really interesting posts, thanks.
My DH and I have been married for years… still in our 40’s and we do have a problem with kissing… apart from the pecks, soft kisses, etc. we have not for years done any passionate/turn on (french) kisses – and I don’t know why – we just don’t get that passionate feeling anymore with kissing, which I do long for (we did at Uni and in our 20’s). We do have great/hot, regular sex & foreplay, that is satisfying for both of us and we are pretty good at communicating and so I don’t really understand what happened with the kissing, which should really be a part of our lovin’ and love makin’! Any thoughts/suggestions?
Thanks.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-204 Thu, 04 Aug 2011 23:58:21 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-204 Thanks for your response. I’ve been checking back to see if you had any suggestions. I’ll give this prayerful thought and try to subtly suggest something different as you suggested. I saw your post from today about kissing technique and thought about sending it to my husband with an “I’m thinking of you” note since I’m out of town. Hopefully as something he’d see as a tease for when I get home, but also as something that might give him some good technique pointers.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-198 Mon, 01 Aug 2011 00:44:02 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-198 To Anon: I’ve given your comment a lot of thought over the last few days (and queried a couple of close friends). I don’t know how to overtly tell a person that he is not a good kisser and needs to do it differently. But I think you can playfully communicate with your husband what you like and don’t like. Over time, bit by bit, the kissing can improve as you positively convey your desires.

For instance, if he starts to thrust his tongue too far, you lean back, smile, and say, “Hang on there, sailor! Bring that ship in slowly.” Or say, “You know what I really like” (with a sexy tone and smile) “is when you tease me with your lips and tongue.” You can also take his face into your hands and take control a bit, showing him what you like.

Any male readers here are welcome to pop in and give their opinion on how a woman could let you know how to adjust your kissing without damaging your feelings.

Frankly, my husband is a better kisser today than he was when we married, and some of that is because we have communicated subtly through words and actions to get a better rhythm and mouth-matching.

Hope it improves for you!

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-196 Fri, 29 Jul 2011 03:07:28 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-196 “A terrible French kiss chokes you or leaves you calling the HazMat team to clean up all the extra spit.” That’s funny, unless it perfectly describes your husband! How do I tell him he’s choking me?!? Without hurting his feelings? I hate this but don’t know what to do. I don’t even know how to tell him what I like. All I know is I don’t like what he’s doing!!!!

]]> By: Rachel https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-195 Fri, 29 Jul 2011 01:31:29 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-195 “how to kiss passionately” was overacted but pretty funny. I enjoyed these links!!

]]> By: Rachel https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/07/28/the-punctuation-of-a-kiss/#comment-194 Fri, 29 Jul 2011 01:11:11 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=191#comment-194 you’re welcome. but I have to tell you, that clip is terrible for context. you really have to watch the entire North & South miniseries (Netflix instant!) to *get* why it is so incredible. And they definitely cut out the sexual tension before and after that adds to the sexiness of that kiss. AND, combine all of this with the fact that it is the least realistic scene in the ENTIRE MOVIE and you will be torn between wagging your finger at the ridiculousness of it all, and secretly melting a little inside every single time you rewind to rewatch. I’m just sayin.

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