Comments on: Wives Want Sex: Link Up https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 13 May 2014 02:27:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 By: Mrs. Right https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/#comment-3518 Wed, 13 Mar 2013 18:18:47 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=182#comment-3518 One other possibility, though I admit is probably very rare, is that the husband actually isn’t heterosexual. Sadly, I know of marriages where the husband hid his homosexuality for years before it came out in the open.

There have been times in my marriage where I was definitely more interested than Mr. Right, but in our case it was either incredible stress which caused him to be distracted and depressed, and being the introvert he is (which I am, too) he needed some time to work it out mentally before he was ready to work it out physically, OR it was when I was pregnant and just couldn’t get enough! 😉

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/#comment-300 Thu, 08 Sep 2011 15:01:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=182#comment-300 This is hardly scientific, but from what I’ve heard in various places (including The Marriage Bed forums), it seems that there are two main causes of this issue:
1) Hormone issues, mainly low testosterone
2) Porn use

Honestly, I haven’t seen a ton of issues where the husband has a lower drive that his wife (or no drive) without him either being low T or a porn addict. I’m sure they exist, but they don’t seem plentiful.

]]> By: marriedspice https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/#comment-291 Wed, 31 Aug 2011 23:15:50 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=182#comment-291 I can say only on some days, I might want more than him!!!! Besides stress, hormonal issues, tiredness, etc…I think the other issue popping it’s ugly head into marriages {and more and more common}is the ease and accessibility of porn online. Men are so addicted that they are desensitizing themselves to the point of having very low libido. Men in their 20’s are suffering from ED!!!! Look at this article from Psychology Today.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201107/porn-induced-sexual-dysfunction-is-growing-problem

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/#comment-286 Mon, 29 Aug 2011 21:12:47 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=182#comment-286 Thank you for doing a post on this topic. I have always been the “eager” one in our relationship. It was good when we were dating because my husband kept us in line, but its been a real struggle since getting married. My Hubby has been so patient with me while I try to figure this out. My friends have not been so understanding. They have called me everything from a horn-dog to a sex machine. Its hard to convince yourself that you are normal when everyone around you can’t understand. So good to hear that I’m not alone in this battle.

]]> By: Christy https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/08/29/wives-want-sex-link-up/#comment-285 Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:09:33 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=182#comment-285 I love your blog and appreciate that you tackle funny light hearted stuff as well as deeper issues. I think sometimes (and this is not always the case) but men are struggling with other things like stress, feeling disrespected, pornography or other lust issues that trigger guilt. Until those are addressed then there will always be issues in the marriage bed. But sometimes it is just a season where the women are ready to go more often than our husbands! That’s OK they like to be persuade too! 🙂

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