https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/09/22/dont-touch-me-im-ugly/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 13 May 2014 00:58:36 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.1 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/09/22/dont-touch-me-im-ugly/#comment-16173 Tue, 13 May 2014 00:58:36 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=175#comment-16173 […] And some of you don’t want to show up sexually because you have to get naked and you don’t feel good about your appearance: Don’t Touch Me: I’m Ugly! […]

]]> https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/09/22/dont-touch-me-im-ugly/#comment-331 Mon, 26 Sep 2011 17:44:37 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=175#comment-331 Anon – It does sound like a struggle for you, and I can imagine how those messages can implant in a woman’s brain. In fact, one of the things churches have gotten wrong is the intense focus on remaining abstinent OUTSIDE marriage without communicating the blessings of sexuality WITHIN marriage. Try to consider the source when you hear the compliment. Your husband likely thinks you are beautiful AND wants sex. The two can co-exist! Blessings.

]]> https://hotholyhumorous.com/2011/09/22/dont-touch-me-im-ugly/#comment-327 Sun, 25 Sep 2011 02:18:54 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=175#comment-327 Interesting… As a teen I was taught by my parents that a boy would do ANYTHING for sex, including lie his head off with (real or false) compliments! You recommend that men compliment their wives, but I still find it hard to believe any compliment that my husband gives me. It seems like false compliments for sex are something that women have to fight as teens, but give into once married. Always a struggle.

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