Comments on: Oral Sex: How To

By: M

Thu, 17 Jul 2014 20:33:07 +0000

“Blow” job is often misunderstood. By definition, blow is when something bursts or expends. Thus the job causes the man to blow off as he expends in orgasm. (Similar for the woman.)
The caution is that blowing on the penis or the vagina can create an air bubble, the bubble could find its way into the body to cause an air embolism. In a word, “don’t”. Don’t blow air into either the penis or the vagina. Only kiss, suck, lick, or caress.

By: Jim

Jim — Thu, 12 Jun 2014 21:00:09 +0000

This is an awesome topic, and great comments from sex-positive Christian wives. So much encouragement for others, thanks ! Has anyone presented the topic of oral sex at a marriage seminar sponsored by your church ? Was it well received, or were you shot down instantly for even mentioning such an activity in a marriage ?
I am a husband, married 25 years. I have never had oral sex, I look forward to at least one experience of oral sex in my life with my wife, both giving and receiving. I asked her about OS several months ago, and she said both giving and receiving are too disgusting to imagine doing. So I wish you wives could say a few words of wisdom to her.
Thanks to these Christian Marriage Blogs I now understand many sexual activities are so good for husbands and wives to share, but years ago I lived under the false influence preached at many churches “all pleasure is sinful.”
My wife maintains oral sex and other sex practices are bad (even tongue interaction during kissing), as she says “whores do those things and I am not a whore.” About a year ago she said even this “Sex is not a part of marriage.” (but if not in marriage, then where is is permissible?) And she still says “I hate orgasms, and I do not want or need them.” How could she forget the pleasure?
She used to enjoy orgasms years ago.

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By: married 30 years

married 30 years — Fri, 11 Apr 2014 18:45:13 +0000

To add some tingle to giving your sweet husband oral sex. Put a strong ming like Altoids in your mouth just before beginning. Lots of new sensations. Might even help with numbing gag reflex. Surprise him!

By: Grannyof6

Grannyof6 — Mon, 24 Mar 2014 03:29:30 +0000

I stumbled on your website and am thrilled that others feel the same way, that what happens in the bedroom within a marriage stays in the bedroom! And Victtoria has a secret and we need to discover the secrets to keeping our mates happy! My spouse and I have been married 42 years. He is 63 and I am 61. Don’t even think about us not enjoying sex cause we happen to be “seniors”. Due to mobility issues (arthritis), we had to modify our sex life and one way for him to still have a pleasurable time is the stimulation orally on his member. At first I was a bit hesitant, but after a few years of practice it has become fun for both of us. One way to keep the gagging reflex at bay is to grip his shaft firmly and use an up and down motion while concentrating on the head of the penis. Use your tongue to circle around the head and upper shaft, sucking gently. If you areba bit turned off by the taste, use honey, fruit (rub with pineapple chunks or juice). Cover your bed with blankets or sheets that you don’t worry about getting stained. Ensure that the substance isn’t cold, you may want to warm it up. Whipped cream is fun as well as chocolate fudge sauce. Keep a large mirror nearby for further fun so he can see you work him over! As far as swallowing, try it once-it ain’t poison. But if it bothers you, keep a towel handy. Don’t forget about the scrotum area, those boys like attention too, but be very gentle down there. Sometimes before I am off and flying on my airline job I give him a surprise quickie just to keep him smiling till I get back. Trust me your man will love you even more for being spicy in the bedroom! You will make him verrrrry happy! Blessings to all us Christian women who want to have the best marriage and sex life possible!