Megan

Wonderful! Thanks for the comment.

And thank you.

What a great point! We can let our eyes be diverted by others or focus that energy on our spouse. Good for you.

In the book, Sheila made the case that women often look at pretty women, not because we want to be titillated but because we dream of being like them. They inspire us. Interesting idea!

I think a lot of women are not nearly so attracted by physical attributes as by relational ones. We like a guy who takes care of us, speaks love to us, etc. As long as there is an attraction, you’re doing fine!

How wonderful, mamaofangels! I think the closer our emotional relationship becomes, the more attractive my husband is to me. So the wrinkles are just laugh lines, the extra pounds are love handles, and so on. 🙂

Thanks, Nylse. Your observation is so true that teaching our young people the biblical perspective of sexuality is so important.

And good for you! Feast away.

You’re not weird; there are a number of women who simply don’t find anything physically attractive or desirable about men. Though I dare say as men, deep down we long to be found as desirable, sensual, and appealing as women are to us. Not for ego or pride, but for worth and affirmation.