Comments on: Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Volume 1 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Thu, 11 May 2017 01:12:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Of Garden, Fragrance, and Fruit | The Forgiven Wife https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-15767 Mon, 05 May 2014 18:58:37 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-15767 […] Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Volume 1, Hot, Holy, & Humorous […]

]]> By: Five Ways to Sustain Sexual Freedom in Marriage: #3 Bring the Awesomeness | Do Not Disturb https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-12971 Tue, 21 Jan 2014 14:58:22 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-12971 […] blog authors have written some pretty poignant posts on the subject.  Here’s one.  Here’s another.)  Discuss various positions to try out together.  Discuss everything and ONLY experiment with […]

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-2433 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 14:41:57 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-2433 How delightful is my wife’s love juice as I sustain her on a a plateau of loving pleasure with my lips, tongue, fingers, and sometimes, a vibrator. Her openness and grace to receive a royal “spoiling” after I have given her a back rub and a foot rub “deluxe”. What a thrilling mountaintop to be French kissing the center of her feminine climax when the earth shudders and moans. The more juice I drink, the younger my heart gets as it floods with intoxicating joy.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1186 Fri, 23 Mar 2012 11:53:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1186 In reply to Anonymous.

Thank you for your tips. I have some coconut oil on hand since I use it on my face. Hmm… Between your posts and One Flesh Marriage’s Zing 1 & Zing 2 posts, maybe, just maybe. Blessings to you, too, for helping so many marriages improve!

]]> By: MunchTalk https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1183 Fri, 23 Mar 2012 03:03:55 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1183 Thanks for posting something that most people would be too intimidated to post! It’s encouraging as a Christian wife who was still figuring all of that out as well. 🙂 My husband actually isn’t such a fan, I think because it’s just odd….with your mouth. I have a deeply personal question. Is there any way to help us girls not get that certain ‘scent’ at various times of the month? I mean, I’m a clean person, but he …has a hard time with it. 🙂

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]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1164 Thu, 22 Mar 2012 05:09:43 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1164 In reply to Anonymous.

Going down on my wife is the best thing ever. To see her body tense up, squirm and then the release of her juices as she orgasms is mind blowing

Amen brother. I’m totally addicted to it, I actually prefer it to regular sex. Eventually, i do need to get off too… but most of our time is spent on cunnilingus, or cunnilingus + toys. But dude, only 6 orgasms? Not enough. You gotta keep going.

Oddly, I despise fellatio. My wife thinks I’m weird but she doesn’t complain.

Let me share a trick with all you guys out there who are married, or planning on it soon. Learn the Old Testament sexual pattern (Rabbi Shumley Boteach teaches on this). In brief, the woman was ceremonially off-limits during her period (approx 5 days), and for another 7 days afterwards. On the 8th day she took a ceremonial bath – a mikveh – and then she was kosher for sex. So assuming a 28 day cycle, that’s 5 + 7 = 12 days off, 16 days on.

WHY is this important? We as Christians are not bound by the old laws, but… consider this: If you follow that pattern for CUNNILINGUS, you’ll be diving down on her, totally frustrated from 12 days of abstinence, at precisely the time of the month that she smells the best, tastes the best, is the most orgasmic, and the most fertile. (Oh, yea, the pattern works for conceiving children too.) Heck, the Law even prescribes a bath at the end of the 7 day cleansing week — perfect preparation for cunnilingus.

]]> By: Texas wife https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1161 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 16:06:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1161 Awesome post! It is a topic that was so shunned as was sex when growing up! As we attended Christian counseling the past few months, one of the first sessions our counselor said years ago he thought what it would be like making love and being extremely intimate with his wife and vice versa he thought oh no! Now that he will he 50 the same day as me, he thinks awesome! Just like my hubby and I think! Our intimate moments are unexplainable. To be in “that place” is unimaginable, words we cannot express. Lord knows we’ve tried in 28 yrs of marriage!
Thanks for your openness and awesome posts!!!

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1160 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 15:58:38 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1160 Though I have participated in both, even managed to climax and same for DH, I’m not a huge fan of either….smell, taste, exertion, ..etc. Nothing like penetration-based climax. In fact, I’d rather not go through the effort to climax if not by penetration.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1159 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 06:41:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1159 What a great and almost funny post, that I was totally surprised but couldn’t stop reading! I was getting turned on and I don’t even have anyone next to me. I’ve been married 50 yrs. and we were 18 when we got married, first for both, so needless to say and being Catholic knew nothing about oral sex. We had to have been married many years before I heard my younger sister talking about 69 and I asked her what she meant. She laughed and said, “You don’t know?” I was embarrassed to tell her, “No!” So we then started doing it and then I was so mad to think of those younger years, where your at your sexual peak on what I had missed out on. I will say, if you have to have a good marriage for a woman to want oral sex from her husband. If their are issues, speaking from experience, it’s very hard to let yourself be so vulnerable and to me, that is what oral sex is all about. The freedom to totally give yourself freely to your husband, with no boundaries between you. What a well written and like I said, the humor was refreshing also.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/03/19/oral-sex-better-to-give-and-receive-volume-1/#comment-1157 Tue, 20 Mar 2012 23:52:35 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=123#comment-1157 In reply to Anonymous.

As I said, some people believe that oral sex is wrong or yucky. Perhaps that is what prompted the minister’s wife. What a shame that she didn’t use that opportunity to mention the bonds that grow through ongoing, intimate contact in marriage blessed by God. I agree with your conclusions, though. Good for you.

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