Comments on: Beyond the Single Orgasm https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 13 May 2014 02:00:14 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.4 By: Why I Sometimes Don’t Care about the Orgasm | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-12824 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 12:01:03 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-12824 […] isn’t an issue with her, because she enjoys it on a frequent basis. Perhaps she even has multiple orgasms frequently. Both she and her husband make this a regular priority, so she has no doubt she can […]

]]> By: The One Sex Tip I Give Husbands Over and Over | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-12292 Mon, 02 Dec 2013 22:18:24 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-12292 […] you’re interested in trying to reach simultaneous orgasm, slowing down may be needed to coordinate that timing. Also, if you finish first, you don’t […]

]]> By: Using Your Body for Marital Intimacy: What to Do with Your Hips | The Seasons of Marriage https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-10397 Fri, 11 Oct 2013 11:45:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-10397 […] she can slow the pace down to draw out her arousal, possibly making it more likely that she can achieve climax along with her husband during intercourse.  Her husband can also signal what he desires by placing his hands outside her […]

]]> By: Using Your Body for Marital Intimacy: What to Do with Your Hips | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-10389 Thu, 10 Oct 2013 14:32:10 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-10389 […] she can slow the pace down to draw out her arousal, possibly making it more likely that she can achieve climax along with her husband during intercourse. Her husband can also signal what he desires by placing his hands outside her […]

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-3123 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 20:01:04 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-3123 In reply to Christy.

Woo-hoo! I bet your husband enjoyed it too–seeing you at that height of pleasure. I agree that sex can get better over time when you learn more about sex and your spouse and work together to become aroused and intimate.

Congratulations. 🙂 So glad I could help a little and thrilled that there are other Christian wives writing about the value and joy of God’s gift of sex as well.

]]> By: Christy https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-3119 Thu, 10 Jan 2013 16:34:53 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-3119 I just found your blog this week (among others – I didn’t know you ladies existed, but I am glad you do!), and I’ve enjoyed it so much. I’ll be back often 🙂
I am one of those women who is blessed to have a generous husband who works to make sex pleasurable for me, and being married 13 years now, I can honestly say we get better at it ALL the time. I did not always have “the big O” very often (practically never for the first 5-6 years of our marriage), but now I get there nearly every time, often more than once! (Practice does make perfect! hehe) But what I’ve been hoping for is to get there at the same time as him – and that doesn’t happen very often.
Yesterday after reading your blog, I anticipated my husband all day and spent the day aroused (I mean Aroused, with a capital A – tmi??) and WOW. Earth shaking, complete with tremors and fire works. And simultaneous!!! I don’t remember if you mentioned the importance of the anticipation, but for me, it works very well. (VERY well). If I look forward and plan ahead, the pleasure for me sends my eyeballs rolling under the door and down the stairs! Whew. Now I can hardly wait for tonight!
Thanks for a great blog! We Christian wives need to be encouraged to enjoy sex with our husbands – it really is a great gift.

]]> By: happywife https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-2868 Mon, 12 Nov 2012 20:33:02 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-2868 In reply to happywife.

Oh yes, he is strutting 🙂 It’s so cute. He has texted me several times today telling me how much he loves me. I am seeing how by being completely unashamed and vunerable with him, he is left feeling trusted and very much the man of the house. This then allows him to fully receive my love for him… and then of course he wants to love me in return. It’s a beautiful cycle in which everyone wins.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-2866 Mon, 12 Nov 2012 19:29:09 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-2866 In reply to happywife.

Wow. How absolutely wonderful for you! I bet your hubby’s strutting a little today too. 😉 Most husbands report feeling really great when they can give their wives such pleasure.

I appreciate you sharing your experience. Blessings to you and hubby!

]]> By: happywife https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-2860 Mon, 12 Nov 2012 15:29:04 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-2860 Hi! I found your blog about a week ago, and have been reading, reading, reading. I never thought I could have multiples… having him touch me after one orgasm was always too much and I would have to cry uncle. But after finding this post yesterday, I decided that I was going to achieve a multiple orgasm if it killed me. So last night I decided would be the night 🙂 After we both had our first orgasm and were laying there cuddling for a minute, I told him I wanted to experience another one. He happily obliged with his fingers. It took me a while to get there, and a few times I thought about giving up, but once I broke through… holy hotness it was hands down the best orgasm I’ve experienced in 24 years of sex. I realize the key was to relax for a minute after the first one and then to be willing to give him feedback (which I’m always a bit shy to do). But saying things like, “go a bit deeper, hold back a bit, oh yea.. that’s it” really helped. Also to completely relax and breathe deeply when I felt like I wasn’t going to be able to take any more.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for being willing to share such intimate advice on this blog! I feel like I am gleaning the information I needed to help our sex life go to new levels.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2012/05/28/beyond-the-single-orgasm/#comment-1949 Sat, 14 Jul 2012 04:47:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=103#comment-1949 And I am one of those lucky wives whose husband delights in her orgasms! What a marvelous gift!

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