Christian bloggers, like J here at HHH, need to step up and talk about sex in a holy, pure, intimate way that God created it. Simply because we are bombarded with impure, adulterated, premarital, unholy, degrading forms of sex at every angle IfI life from movies, tv, music, websites, phone calls, sexting to watching people out in public not care. So YES we need a Christian view to keep us grounded. No not every blog pertains to every reader but I that blog helps one marriage then its purpose is served.

Dear J,

I have been reading this blog for more than a year now. And have learned one great lesson more than 10 years ago. If you are doing something that is good for your Father you are going to get attack. The more closer you are getting to the TRUTH, the more the enemy will attack you.

May our Father bless you and your husband and keep writing your blog, with much wisdom, power, love and grace.

From a husband of 21 years, a father of 6 children and a priest for his whole family.

Stay in the Blessing

http://www.citizenlink.com/2012/08/14/olympic-village-life-sex-behind-the-scenes/

Anon,

I’m not “so easily offended or contrary to rebukes.” In fact, I am not adverse to correction based on specifics and scripture, but your assessment of me was not based in fact and was personally accusatory. More importantly, you insulted my readers. So I don’t see the benefit of continuing this conversation.

I suspect we agree on the majors within Christianity — God’s love, Jesus’ atoning sacrifice, our need for faith and grace, and the Holy Spirit’s leading. My best wishes to you.

True, we all have issues with sin. Some others have issues concerning penetrating, stimulating or simply having sex in marriage. That is different kind of issues.

I am so tired of hearing the same … about how wonderful gift is sex, worth to wait for – you don’t wait in purity because how wonderful sex is inm marriage but because God commands us to do so out of ….something else.

I am so tired of hearing same same same …I could give other reasons in response your blog and commenters but I will keep silent. Funny, yes wwe all are accountable to God, and strangely so easily ofended or contrary to rebukes.

Regards.

~Jason

They described it as learning to play an instrument, like a guitar or violin. In the beginning, your efforts are very rough and produce mostly unintelligible noise. But as time goes on, simple songs begin to appear, the playing gets smoother, and eventually (with LOTS of practice) one can pick up that instrument and make awesome, beautiful music with it.

I’ve been playing guitar for nearly 35 years now… and I can safely report that this has been my experience with it. AND… on August 28th, I will celebrate my 25th anniversary with my beautiful bride… and the music we make today is WAAAAAY better than the music we made together in the early days.

Keep up the great work, and the GREAT blog, J! We appreciate you!

In Christ,
~Jason
Married to the Most Beautiful Woman in the world!
http://songsix3.org/the-most-beautiful-woman-in-the-world/

Thanks, restoredmarriage! (Love that name. So glad to know that others have been restored.)

Thanks, Leah! I wrote a post some time ago called “When My Sex Life Sucked,” and that time would be when I was having babies! It’s just so hard to have your body do dual duty as baby’s mama and “hot mama.” There are certainly things I could have done then, though (which I outline in the post). Glad to know you’re getting your mojo back!