“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life” (Proverbs 13:12). Unfortunately, I know that’s how some spouses feel about their sex lives and marital intimacy. I pray that you can be patient, pray and seek the best in your marriage, and have your longing fulfilled.

I long to feel for my wife the way the post are showing. Our intimacy is nonexistent. I pray that my wife becomes sex positive. I pray that i can be patient with her, and not do anything foolish

Oh I now have my number 9.
High heels are the sexiest item of clothing my wife can wear. When my wife puts on heels I stand at attention Lol.

Sex is not the time we are thinking about the 20 lbs. you would like to lose. All we are thinking about is my wife is naked, she is hot, and I am hot for her.

We want you in the shower or whirlpool with us. Get your mind off of your body flaws and enjoy.

We like to be teased. Flash us, flirt with us, tell us what you want to do with us. Knowing a fun filled evening awaits us will drive us crazy.

If you want to make our day greet us at the door in thigh highs and high heels. Talk about stress relief.

Want your husband to help you clean house. Put on a sexy shirt and shorts, (shorts optional), with no under garments and tell him as soon as the house is clean, we can have some fun. You will have clean house in no time and you both will feel better in the end. Make sure to bend over occasionally and display the goods.

As explained to me, my hubby was saying that it is important for a husband to take his time and bring his wife to the level of desire he starts with.

Sheila Gregoire (To Love, Honor and Vacuum blog) has done a great job of explaining that wives should try to engage even when they don’t feel all that receptive. They can prep themselves with some relaxation time (a hot bath, candles, music), dressing the part (hello, lingerie), and just giving themselves time to heat up (foreplay). I’ll give a personal example: Recently my husband initiated, and I was honestly thinking, “No, no, not sex; I’m too tired.” I decided to engage anyway, and our intimacy turned out to be absolutely fantastic. I made a choice to participate; he made the choice to take his time with me; and we both benefited from the experience.

Best wishes getting her motor running!

I wish that were an option for me, but its not. (She has to be in a receptive mood before I can even suggest it.) I can agree with the rest of them though. Thank you for posting his list!!

I agree with all of them…they are all great! My wonderful geek has said a lot of those same things.

#5…in TOTAL AGREEMENT!

Even young marriages, sex can get old or seem less needed quick when you have so much of life’s demands on you. Nurturing is a MUST, from both people.

Of course I shared it with her. She would admit that the humor-ish part of our writing comes from my end. 🙂

Of course I shared it with her. She would admit that the humor-ish part of our writing comes from my end. 🙂