Comments on: Does Sexy Lingerie Promote a Perverted View of Beauty?

By: imwhisper

imwhisper — Tue, 19 Aug 2014 07:41:02 +0000

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By: J

Thu, 11 Apr 2013 20:22:06 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. I held onto this comment for a long time before choosing to publish it. I do NOT support this husband's attitude. Manipulating your wife into meeting your visual fantasies is NOT what sex in marriage is about. Sure, there is consideration of her taste, but the general gist of this comment is not the God-honoring, union-focused sexuality that I hope to promote here.

I don't wish ill in any way to this married couple. In fact, I pray that their relationship is filled with love and respect. But I simply couldn't put this comment out without a reply.

Blessings!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 23 Mar 2013 09:06:07 +0000

For us it started with one outfit – an expensive camisole, a robe and some sheer lace panties. That outfit became a flag – I would lay it out on her pillow – she would either wear it or not and I would either sleep in bed or go sleep on the couch if she chose not to wear it – she got the idea. Then we got great birth control – an IUD – she felt more comfortable. I went shopping – but…. I took her tastes into account – she does not like sleazy – no garters, stockings, crotchless, no fantasy crap – she likes pretty, comfortable – silk – she wants to wear panties to bed – I discovered tap panties – which are perfect as they make her happy and they provide total access – for other nice panties – no problem – even fancy panty girdles – the high cut ones – the ride shifts over. Gowns – long full length down to short camisoles – many in silk. Classic ones – Olga , Lucy Anne, Shadowline, some modern ones – gowns lift up just fine. Teddies – we iike teddies. We tried a schedule and it worked. She was enjoying herself – I was doing a good job pleasing her. When we were at it every other day – she decided differently – she said she was up for it each day. She decided to dress for bed in something of her choosing each evening and she preferred morning sex so we make love each morning – and have done so for several years – this is what we like and our normal. She has over 150 pairs of panties, 40 teddies and 150 gowns – we use them.

By: J

Mon, 25 Feb 2013 00:56:41 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. Great question! Here's an entire post about Storing Your Sexy Stuff

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 22 Feb 2013 02:37:31 +0000

I just need advice on where to hide the crotchless underwear and racy lingerie so my teenagers don’t find them! Not to mention hand washing and hanging to dry. Seriously! Help anyone? It was easier when they were younger!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 22:41:25 +0000

I think its very easy for a lot of men to get selfish, expectant and even a little demanding when it comes to the bedroom ritual. He feels like he has to make the move in order for anything to happen and it can be fairly easy for a man to get impatient or get hurt feelings from any kind of sexual rejection from his wife. But if a man can be very patient and put his wife’s needs first and be very giving (in and out of the bedroom) and maybe even play a little hard to get and prove (over time) that just being with his wife is more important than having sex with her, then I think a lot of men will be very surprised by the way their wife opens up sexually and starts to turn into the pursuer instead of the pursued and the kind of things she does and wears in the bedroom. I know its hard to stay patient because the more you do for your wife, the more you naturally expect to get from her, but you have to resist that urge and stay patient and keep honoring her and flirting and not get overwhelmed by your expectations and just go with it and follow her lead. Sometimes women just need to feel like they are in control, like they can have sex on their own terms and not just because its their duty or because their husband needs sex but because they want to have sex. If you never give your wife a chance to want to have sex, then she never will. If you’re always expecting sex from her then she’s always doing it because you’re expecting it, not necessarily because she actually wants to do it, like really, really wants it. You have to give her that chance to actually want sex on her own. I speak from personal experience, it’s very worth it.

By: J

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 01:54:07 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. :( I'm so sorry.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 00:01:12 +0000

I once asked my wife if she would like to put on her stockings and a thong, (As I had been working away for a month)

She hit the roof, she said "why do you want me trussed up like a chicken" then slamed the bedroom door on her way out...

What she meant to say was "I'm having an affair with a guy at the office, while you are away working to pay the bills and have been for sometime"

and she got to keep the house too!

By: Bustiers

Bustiers — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 06:26:33 +0000

I have been reading several of your articles and I thought I will leave a Short Reply: Thanks =)