Comments on: Wives: What Is Your Husband Thinking During Sex? https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 15 Aug 2023 23:31:07 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.4 By: Jeremy https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3503 Tue, 12 Mar 2013 19:12:56 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3503 I love all the points you gave about what we think… as a husband who just celebrated 18 yrs with my wonderful wife I can tell you that it is very true that we do love it when they initiate some of the time. Even after 18 yrs I still sometime have trouble knowing when and if shes “in the mood” and if she wants too.

Her and I have had many discussions over they years about what we like/don’t so much, when and where, how much is enough and not enough, etc. and for us that has made a huge difference in our sex life. One thing that I discovered early on that really made a big difference was making sure that she knew she could talk to me or tell me anything without judgement when it came to our sex life.

I discovered that she actually had a hidden side that she was kind of afraid to let our because she had alway been taught that the wife had to be the submisive one. When she told me about this I encourage her to “be herself” with me and boy was that the best advice I could have ever given her. Together we’ve discovered that she realy liked some things that I would have never known or thought she want to do or try.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3344 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:14:25 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3344 This is an amazing list! Thank you for speaking my mind (as a happily married husband who seems can’t get this message out without it falling on deaf ears). I think one thing missing from this list is men are visual sexually. Don’t be afraid to wear lingerie around your husband! Who cares that you don’t look exactly like a 20 year-old Victoria’s Secret model? We married you! Not them! The attraction we have to our wives is beyond the external and physical. We men like the visual stimulation. It’s foreplay without touching! It enhances it that much more. My wife struggles in this department despite my best efforts to convince her otherwise. The reality is, the more often/longer she wears it, the sexier she feels and more enhancing our love making becomes. Some of the most intense passionate love making experiences of my marriage she has dressed “up” (up being a relative term). Lingerie is a fun and wonderful thing ladies and it doesn’t equate to the debasing images of sex in the media. There is nothing perverted about it either. I am sure you’d rather have your husband see you in a satin bustier and thigh-highs than that 2 dimensional 20 year-old in the catalog right? He does too! It doesn’t matter you’re not a size 2. He loves you with all his heart! You are the mother of his children and was likely there when you gave birth to them! There is so much more to the depth of a sexual relationship, but don’t equate visually stimulating your husband with revealing attire as something that is bad. Nothing could be farther from the truth!

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3205 Thu, 24 Jan 2013 01:36:39 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3205 Silent Night is a Christmas hymn. Not a Romantic Evening.

]]> By: Andrew https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3188 Mon, 21 Jan 2013 15:52:57 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3188 Thanks Gerard, that is right on! 100%

]]> By: senhaku https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3184 Sun, 20 Jan 2013 08:28:19 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3184 Awesome. You are so right in what husbands are thinking. I had mentioned to my wife some of those things in a nice way. For example, asking if she’s enjoying it. But it’s really tough having to do, ask and anticipate all the time. On the other hand, she’s always in my mind when we were having sex. I don’t need to think or imagine… because she was just right there.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3178 Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:03:58 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3178 Funny, real, and ummm, needed to know that I need to change some things. LOL Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: W.P. Morgenstien https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3167 Thu, 17 Jan 2013 21:06:40 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3167 From a wife: THANK YOU for this!!
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]]> By: jim https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3157 Thu, 17 Jan 2013 03:25:57 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3157 so very true. I think i can relate to all of them in this post…wish the wife would open up a little more and tell me how much she wants me

]]> By: Gaye @CalmHealthySexy https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3156 Thu, 17 Jan 2013 02:45:04 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3156 This is great. Really helpful information. Thanks to both of you.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/01/14/wives-what-is-your-husband-thinking-during-sex/#comment-3155 Thu, 17 Jan 2013 01:15:30 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=36#comment-3155 Excellent post for the “normal” husband. For those of us who have husbands that despite every aggressive attitude, lingerie galore, clean house, hot dinner, and any new idea they can come up with…. you still get turned away with, “Sorry, I’m tired”. That’s when you really wonder what they’re thinking 🙂

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