Comments on: Sex Initiation Lines: The Good, the Bad, and the Funny https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Thu, 26 Sep 2013 18:30:44 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.1 By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-4725 Wed, 11 Sep 2013 01:14:42 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-4725 In reply to Dave1.

Hey, Dave1! I’ve heard of that method as well. If this practice is mutually agreed upon and done playfully, I think it’s great. Why not?!

Initiation can occur in many ways: everything from a verbal, straight-up request to a nonverbal wink across a room. If a certain verbal or nonverbal method works for the marriage, I’m not going to question it. And I suggest they enjoy it!

]]> By: Dave1 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-4722 Tue, 10 Sep 2013 19:11:26 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-4722 J: I don’t know if you check on comments to some of these older posts. Recently came across a reference to the bead method as a means of sex initiation. The basic idea is, when one spouse is ‘in the mood’ he/she places a bead in a bowl. The other spouse has 24 hours to make good on the request. I expect there are plenty of other variations on this theme out there (coupons, maybe, or something other than beads in a jar).

Comments I’ve seen around ranged from “how lame must the state of communication be in a marriage that needs a gimmick like this to initiate sex” to “what a great idea.” I was wondering what you thought of these kinds of gimmicky, non-verbal techniques for initiating/requesting sex?

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3850 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 12:48:27 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3850 In reply to Anonymous.

I’d draw a planets-aligning space scene and put it right outside the bedroom window. Look, they’re aligned!!! 😉

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3849 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 12:32:24 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3849 My wife’s pick up line is “We haven’t had sex for 4 months, and I don’t think I’m busy this weekend, so if the planets align, maybe we could have sex.”

]]> By: Paul Byerly https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3848 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 03:49:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3848 In reply to Paul Byerly.

Rhymes with “disappoint us”!

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3847 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 00:15:27 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3847 This is too funny. For us its referred to as “naptime” – On occasion, when one of really does just want to take a nap, it can get confusing and hilarious!

Although not perfect, my husband is learning how to say things, and I am learning how to speak more directly at what I want/need. I really struggle with this as its embarrassing for me, but he loves it, and says if embarrassed is what it takes, then keep being embarrassed cause I love it!

]]> By: upwithmarriage https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3846 Sat, 13 Apr 2013 19:22:58 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3846 This was a great reminder! I love how Claire uses a beautiful blend of girlish whining mixed with coquettishness. Even though she’s stating her point she does it with such femininity and the humour of repeating Cliff’s words in her mock male voice to remove the sting that Cliff might’ve otherwise felt. Something that I noticed after the clip was finished was that he didn’t really do anything that was that different – he kissed her arm a few times; but she responded to it by moving closer to him.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3840 Fri, 12 Apr 2013 21:52:44 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3840 Those are so funny! My husband is a funny guy, and will turn anything I say into a come-on line or a dirty phrase. Coitus is used sometimes in our house, actually! In a joking manner, of course. Most of the time, it is referred to as “talking.” “Hey, Mommy, how about we go back to the bedroom and talk for a few minutes?” *Wink Wink* Or, “I think we need to have a good, long talk.” 🙂

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3839 Fri, 12 Apr 2013 21:47:33 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3839 In reply to Jeni.

That sounds like my husband! I tell him all the time, “You really can make ANYTHING sound dirty,can’t you?” 🙂

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/04/11/sex-initiation-lines-the-good-the-bad-and-the-funny/#comment-3838 Fri, 12 Apr 2013 21:24:14 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=305#comment-3838 In reply to Paul Byerly.

Don’t give my husband any ideas. Ha! “Coitus” may now show up in the bedroom. 😉

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