Comments on: What I Wish I’d Known Before the Wedding Night

By: LEA

LEA — Sat, 04 Oct 2014 08:51:37 +0000

I really enjoyed this article as well as many of the comments made. It is great! Just what I needed to prepare my virgin-counsellees (pre-wedding class).

God bless you for impacting christian marriages for good.

By: Danny

Danny — Fri, 15 Aug 2014 04:29:54 +0000

This article is awesome, I usually don’t get any questions I have at heart answered I usually base my info what I believe sex will be and on how the media portrays it. The friends I have Im cool talkin about sex but its just that im usually the older one so im not getting much from them. Im really impressed that these folks wanted purity before marriage, as do I, and the affirmation that anything goes in the bedroom ( 1 flesh style is sweet from LORD) the marriage is first though. I am not seeing anyone but GOd already told me that I can marry this woman (Jessica) and so, I realize marriage could be about me me me give me my name is jimmy(my pastor always said that) but I actually have feelings for this one special person and truly am gonna learn what giving and working in a relationship really mean under GOd. SO yea that’s my heart, also all you read this, the one thing I learned is that don’t take what one person says about sex, in fact many people look down at it, because the way the world abuses this gift and also even I sometimes crave it more than I ought, you know, but like read this whole page I read everyones comment, so its almost like take many peoples experiences and wrap your mind from that, in any case just persist with GOd and one day he’ll give you a story on the topic of sex husband and wife style. Alright peace. dan.

By: I.N

I.N — Thu, 14 Aug 2014 22:53:08 +0000

Hi, very interesting and educative article. I didn’t know about the whole peeing before and after sex till I read this article. I’m just 24, not exactly a virgin, I mean I haven’t had sex before (my hymen is still intact), but I did things to my ex-bf since I wasn’t going all the way. At the time I was happy that I was pleasing him, but looking back now, I wish I hadn’t done those things. Anyway, I asked God for forgiveness and decided to be celibate, no form of sexual activity till marriage. Reading some of the comments have me kinda nervous wondering how it’ll be for me when the time comes, but I’ll leave everything in God’s hands, when the time is right, I’ll be sure to educate myself fully. Love your blog.

By: Nessa

Nessa — Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:59:04 +0000

I love this. I read every single comment and am very glad I am not the only one who is in the V club. I hope I can remember all of this before my wedding night. Thanks for sharing. Its nerve wrecking but I know it will some day be so special. Also glad to know that sex isn’t something “wrong” to talk or think about! Looking forward to more of your post.

By: Christin

Christin — Wed, 18 Jun 2014 14:15:02 +0000

Thank you for this post and for everyone who commented! I’m engaged and a virgin and I vascilate between being really excited about the wedding night and feeling totally unprepared and even inadequate. It frustrates me that most women find it painful, and even difficult, the first time. I confess that I wonder why God made it that way. It seems like the first time a husband and wife become “one flesh” should be an amazing experience, not scary or painful. But God is God and I am not and He knows what He’s doing. I’m also a little extra anxious because I will be 28 when I get married, and that’s not all that young. I hope my age doesn’t make things harder.

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By: J

Tue, 18 Mar 2014 12:54:37 +0000

In reply to blessed. Well, blessed, not this girl. But I believe in the redemptive power of Christ, and God has blessed me with wonderful intimacy with my husband in spite of my mistakes in the past. I pray that you discover and hold onto that deep connection with a husband someday as well!

By: blessed

blessed — Tue, 18 Mar 2014 02:37:06 +0000

am glad i found what godly people have to say about sex.and most of you seem to have been the good boys n girls who were or are gonna be virgins on the wedding day and that made the day really memorable.am not one but i look forward to enjoying too

By: The Man

The Man — Sat, 07 Dec 2013 14:33:27 +0000

I wish I’d known that sex would be come infrequent, one sided, lame and soul sucking before I said “I do.”

By: J

Tue, 19 Nov 2013 20:01:40 +0000

In reply to Newlywed.

Have you checked with your doctor? A small percentage of women have physical issues that prevent the space from expanding properly. That’s where I’d start. If the doctor clears you, then I’d suggest lots of lubricant and stretching exercises. Which your husband can help you with. It may take time, but it will be worth it.

In the meantime, I’d suggest you and your husband aren’t really virgins. I mean technically you are, but you’ve obviously shared your bodies and sexual encounters. Sexual intimacy is compromised of various sexual encounters, and these are something special and exclusive to your marriage. Keep enjoying one another’s bodies and the pleasure you can give and receive, while addressing the main issue of working toward intercourse.

Blessings! Big, big newlywed blessings to you both!