Comments on: 4 Ways Sex Can Comfort in Crisis or Grief https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 28 Nov 2023 05:18:45 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.3 By: nix https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-21090 Fri, 18 Jul 2014 16:16:40 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-21090 So I’ll just throw this into the mix as you are discussing affairs etc. I haven’t had sex with my husband for 6 months ( he decided to stop) .Then I discovered his affair !!
From that point, obviously, I was hurting grieving the loss of my marriage , even though I didnt’ know back then if it was over. But he decided to leave just recently. Once I found out about the affair I was really craving him sexually , like a big increase in sex drive. I would love to have had him comfort me and bring us healing in that way but he has chosen someone else. So now I obviously have to look after myself in that department ; )
Anyone have any experience of this or am I barking !
thanks

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]]> By: Mara https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-12213 Tue, 26 Nov 2013 14:05:25 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-12213 Sex has been really important for me (and my H) after he had an affair, 1.5 years ago. We went through a phase (6 months) of hysterical bonding (having sex several times a day). Where my husband was the higher drive one in our marriage before (about 3 times a week), I’m the higher drive one now, after the affair (still 7+ times a week). He has gone back to normal (his normal), I’ve ‘calmed’ down a bit, haha, but I find it difficult sometimes, our difference in ‘drive’.

So yes, sex has never been more important in our 13 years of marriage

Mara x

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]]> By: Yolanda W https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-11226 Wed, 13 Nov 2013 00:25:12 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-11226 I’m feeling the same way at this present moment. My husband is away seeing about family he hasn’t been gone a week yet but since he’s been gone I had uncle pass unexpectedly. My fathers birthday is this weekend and he passed this summer…my uncle’s funeral is this Monday the day before my birthday..no I’m not attending…can’t do that right now..and I know my husband will be home before the weekend and all I’m desire is to make sweet passionate love. to him like never before. 🙂

]]> By: DorothyC https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-11185 Tue, 12 Nov 2013 10:08:14 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-11185 I totally get this…thank you for sharing. This was exactly my response after my husband told me he had had sex multiple times w/another woman (who I know and who came to our wedding) prior to our marriage. I think it kind of surprised us both how I wanted him to be touching me all the time and to have sex just about every night for weeks after he told me. I needed him to just love me, be with me-and he did, does. Unexpected and amazing grace provision from God-the intimacy and restoration, redemption even that sex can bring to a relationship sometimes.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-11178 Tue, 12 Nov 2013 04:29:34 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-11178 In reply to Rory.

I’m so, so sorry. I mourn your loss with you. I am praying for you and your husband, and I’m glad that you reconnected.

]]> By: Rory https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-11177 Tue, 12 Nov 2013 03:25:13 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-11177 Amazing how you totally touch a topic that hits home for me! We have always had dry spells after babies over our almost 24 years of marriage. Breastfeeding, bed sharing, and wanting to sleep instead all contributed. After our last baby was born with a heart defect and the extra care he required, it was no different. He passed away unexpectedly last March after surgery when he was just 7 months old. In the grief that consumed me after, there was nothing I craved more than sex with my husband. You summed it up beautifully. 🙂

]]> By: bp3 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2013/11/07/4-ways-sex-can-comfort-in-crisis-or-grief/#comment-11170 Tue, 12 Nov 2013 01:04:55 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=1961#comment-11170 In reply to Cindy.

Our deepest sympathies.

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