https://hotholyhumorous.com/2014/01/09/what-does-it-take-to-be-happy/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:50:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.2 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2014/01/09/what-does-it-take-to-be-happy/#comment-12827 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:50:46 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=2316#comment-12827 Personally, I have become much happier in my marriage since I started letting go of the little things that I was trying to change in him. In fact, most everything that bugs me falls into the “Does it really matter at the end of the day?” category. Once I accepted the fact that my husband is his own person and has the right to be who he chooses to be, I have been so much more free to enjoy him. And even through a big issue, I had to set it aside and love him unconditionally… that kept me sane. I’m not suggesting that we ignore major issues, but we can still love our husbands during the midst of working through those issues and not let the issue be front and center of our every waking thought.

]]> https://hotholyhumorous.com/2014/01/09/what-does-it-take-to-be-happy/#comment-12793 Thu, 09 Jan 2014 20:47:42 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=2316#comment-12793 Lots of grace! God’s grace! Also, communication, truth, intimate times spent alone with each other, and fellowship with other married couples.

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