Comments on: Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn’t Care)

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By: Anon Male

Anon Male — Wed, 20 Aug 2014 14:43:26 +0000

In reply to Greg.

The speed at which a piece of lingerie is removed by your husband is not necessarily correlated with his approval of said piece of lingerie. If he takes it off in the first two minutes, it’s probably because he really liked it and wants to have sex with you asap. If he leaves it on for the whole time, it’s probably because he really liked it and wants to have sex with you in it.

In either event, there’s never been a piece of lingerie that my wife wore that I didn’t like. This could be because we lingerie shop together. Yes, I like some of them more than others, but almost any lingerie is good in my opinion.

In all honest though…what I really like is the variety that lingerie provides.

By: Anon

Anon — Wed, 20 Aug 2014 14:37:13 +0000

In reply to Greg. To me it's more about variety than beauty enhancement. While it may not increase her beauty, it can increase her sexiness. :) *You body makes you sexy, your smile makes you pretty, your personality makes you beautiful.

By: David Antonini

David Antonini — Fri, 15 Aug 2014 15:00:27 +0000

In reply to mike. Tell her your fantasy ;)

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If I Wrote the Sex Scenes | Hot, Holy & Humorous — Thu, 14 Aug 2014 14:27:56 +0000

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By: Erin

Erin — Tue, 22 Jul 2014 14:56:50 +0000

In reply to A. I agree with you "A". The difficulty for me lies in that wearing that pretty sexy stuff increases my already high libido, furthering the gap in our sex drives. It's a catch-22 for me anyways.

By: TC

TC — Tue, 22 Jul 2014 01:51:15 +0000

In reply to J. Usually mid-20s. They are little girls to me, but I should have been more circumspect in my comment. I was upset and did not realize how the words I used could be misinterpreted. I apologize.

By: J

Mon, 21 Jul 2014 23:05:39 +0000

In reply to TC. What on earth is this?: "leave sexy to the little girls he takes pictures of." Are you talking women or girls?

By: A

Mon, 21 Jul 2014 16:04:08 +0000

I thought I was the only one! I feel so much better now! My husband’s libido is so low that he doesn’t even care that it is low. I have experienced those “globs of grief” so many times I cannot begin to count them. I started wearing sexy things to bed to try to up his libido. No dice. I continue to do so every night and wear pretty panties and bras every day because I have realized it makes me feel good and sexy and still desirable and helps me to still feel like a woman. Thank you so very much for sharing. I cannot tell you how much better I feel knowing I am not alone or just plain crazy!

By: Robin

Robin — Thu, 17 Jul 2014 05:40:39 +0000

Ohmygosh. Thanks for sharing that your husband absolutely does not care about lingere. 10 years married (to a guy with a drive slightly lower than mine) and I’m pretty much over the “maybe if I were skinnier, he’d like to see me in lingere…” thing. But it’s still remarkably freeing to know that I am not the only wife whose husband could not care less about the little lacy thing. And I agree with you… Sometimes it’s worth wearing the lacy thing for ME.