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By: J

Fri, 13 Mar 2015 11:55:05 +0000

In reply to Thankful.

I’ve also seen professed Christians okay-ing some things that don’t seem to comport with Scripture. I’m not saying I necessarily get everything right — because I’m not God. Rather, we all must return to the Word, pray for wisdom, and keep our conscience before the Lord. With that approach, however, things definitively do become clearer.

Blessings!

By: Thankful

Thankful — Fri, 13 Mar 2015 05:55:41 +0000

Thanks for this reminder.
I can feel myself surrounded by the lies of this world and it’s really good to bring our decisions back to God.
Honestly, I’ve read posts by Christians okay-ing some of the things you mentioned and it actually started causing me to doubt. Thanks for bringing me back to the truth. Our lives are about glorifying God, not living for whatever the next twisted pleasure is.

By: Greg

Greg — Wed, 25 Feb 2015 23:18:09 +0000

Truth! Speak on.

By: Erynn Haskins

Erynn Haskins — Tue, 24 Feb 2015 16:49:32 +0000

Wow this is great! I think putting God’s consent above all else in your relationship is the most important thing to consider.

By: J

Tue, 24 Feb 2015 11:52:50 +0000

In reply to S. Thanks so much, S!

By: J

Tue, 24 Feb 2015 11:52:37 +0000

In reply to Bradley Watson. Good questions, Bradley! Thanks.