Comments on: Two Words That Could Change the Course of Sex in Your Marriage https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Wed, 03 Jun 2015 13:12:16 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27956 Wed, 03 Jun 2015 13:12:16 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27956 In reply to edl.

Ooh, that does hurt. I’m so sorry, edl. Some people have the view that the past is past, and they expected to have sex with others before meeting The One, and they just don’t get it. Blessings.

]]> By: edl https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27914 Tue, 02 Jun 2015 22:20:46 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27914 Actually, one I’d love to hear — I’m sorry I slept with so many other people.

I didn’t have a problem with it when we were dating because I thought I mattered, but after we got married and I found out he wasn’t that into me physically, it became a real problem. And I know he doesn’t regret anyone before me. It leaves me feeling a little … abandoned? It hurts to know that he cherishes all of that desire that he had with other people.

]]> By: Keelie Reason https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27725 Sat, 30 May 2015 02:00:28 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27725 We all need to say these words. I completely agree. It will not only change your sex life, but your marriage too!

]]> By: Dan & Linda Wilson https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27701 Fri, 29 May 2015 14:43:03 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27701 This is a really wonderful article- simple, yet of true significance. Being willing to apologize, and actually doing it from time to time, is a great way to enhance every aspect of marriage. We have never been sorry that we said, “I’m sorry.” Linda and I liked this so much we immediately shared it on our Facebook page. Bless you!

]]> By: Jenny https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27679 Fri, 29 May 2015 01:00:53 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27679 It’s difficult to get defensive at an apology, although sometimes trust needs to be built too, and that requires patience. Sometimes a simple date night can break down many barriers.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27673 Thu, 28 May 2015 22:22:54 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27673 In reply to Ham.

Absolutely! Well-said.

]]> By: Ham https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27670 Thu, 28 May 2015 21:10:36 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27670 How true! Sex, whether wonderful or awful, doesn’t occur in a vacuum. It happens within the context of the overall marital relationship. How often do we husbands trivialize our wives needs for simple non-sexual affection, affirmation and attention and then resent them for not being enthusiastic lovers when, in reality they are love-starved? Many of us, myself included, have a lot to answer for, and the “I’m sorry” can be a good start. It doesn’t make a husband less of a man to admit he’s made mistakes and even tears of repentance ; rather, it makes him a bigger man!

]]> By: G https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/05/28/two-words-that-could-change-the-course-of-sex-in-your-marriage/#comment-27667 Thu, 28 May 2015 18:44:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=5626#comment-27667 And who remembers what the actual cause of most disagreements anyway? Okay, my wife does, but anyway, most of the time it doesn’t matter who apologizes and for what. It’s like adding oil to a dying motor; the motor doesn’t care where the oil comes from, it just needs it to keep operating. Besides, I usually get lucky by saying “I’m sorry” even when I wasn’t the source of the issue. Just keep the motor running as smoothly as possible.

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