Daily Archives: August 26, 2015

Q&A with J: 4 Questions I Want to Ask You

Today’s question is from me. Or rather, questions. For two reasons:

  1. It takes a loooong time to write my responses to certain questions, because I don’t believe in pat answers. Sometimes I do research, Bible study, and a whole lot of thinking as part of my blog posts here. Since I had my annual mammogram this morning (check your breasts regularly, ladies!) and it took longer than expected, I didn’t have all the time I wanted to properly answer my queued-up question.
  2. I’ve been thinking about my blog, my newsletter, my ministry. I’d like my readers’ feedback on a few things. Now seems like a good time to ask.

Q&A with J: 4 Questions I Want to Ask You

What would you like me to blog about?

I’m not talking about specific subjects per se — I have plenty of ideas in my email inbox for a while! — but rather the focus. At the end of August, I’d planned to move away from questions from readers and back to posting on this, that, and the other. However, I have quite a few questions still left. Would you like me to continue answering reader questions as a regular part of my blog?

Also, what general areas do you want me to give more attention to? For instance, do you want more how-to posts? More inspirational posts? More emphasis on Bible study or Christian theology and marriage/sex? More about higher-drive wives? More about sex in various stages of life? Anything else?

What would you like to see on the Hot, Holy & Humorous website?

My website is essentially a blog, but I hope to move into providing broader information.

What would you like to see as part of that? Do you want recommended reads? A list of specific scriptures that relate to marriage and sex? Excerpts from my books? Downloadable resources? Printables? What would help you in your marital intimacy that I could (somewhat easily) offer?

How about information about me coming to speak? Is that something you want on the website?

What do you want to see in my monthly(ish) newsletter?

What features would be helpful in a monthly newsletter? Do you want a list of previous posts to make sure you didn’t miss anything? Posts from other blogs or resources I recommend? Tips for your sexual intimacy? Interviews with others? Scriptures? Something else?

How has Hot, Holy & Humorous helped you?

I’m not looking AT ALL for “J. Parker, you’re fabulous!” God and I know otherwise, and I’m really doing okay on the self-confidence front. What I want is, if this blog has helped you in some way, please share how it’s made a difference — that is, your brief, no-need-to-blow-sunshine-my-way testimony.

Your stories will help me better discern how to prioritize goals for my ministry and what to take on next.

Of course, I could have devised a really nice looking survey and embedded it here or something, but I’m not all that tech-savvy and I like open-ended questions where y’all can express pretty much whatever you want.

Remember that if you want to remain anonymous in your answers, just type Anonymous / Anon / Beautiful Lady / Etc. in the name field. When the comment section asks for your email, that part is only seen my me — no one else.

I do have a Comments Policy too, so if you’re planning to bash me personally, rag on all my readers, and generally tell off the world, that comment won’t go through. But that’s rarely a problem here. If you want to know more specifically about my guidelines, go check out the policy first.

If you’d rather email me, head over to my contact form and fill it out.

That’s it. Four questions:

  1. What do you want me to blog about?
  2. What do you want to see on the website?
  3. What do you want in the newsletter?
  4. How has HHH helped you specifically?

It’s your turn to answer. Ready . . . set . . . go!