You know what really satisfies a woman? Monogamy. Studies have shown that the most satisfying sex, for both genders, comes from dedicated relationships, like marriage. That’s what I address here, both as a Christian and as someone who wants my readers to experience the best sex they can. Instead of thinking too much about penis size, I suggest men invest in knowing and loving one woman — say, for a lifetime. All the best, David!

However, I am nearly 5.75 inches in girth, which is well above average. I have been with many women and have always satisfied them very well. They almost always returned for more sex. Again, girth is the aspect of size that pleases the women during intercourse, not length. Most men are hung-up on length and just plain fail to realize that girth is far more important. Unless their penis is very thin they can satisfy a woman and should not be hung-up about it.

Hey! Don’t be discouraged. You may not be all the way healed from the birth. Sex hurt me until 7 months after our first child was born. It hurt when we first got married, through the first pregnancy, and for those first 7 months postpartum. But once I finally healed up, it finally stopped hurting! So maybe your body just needs more time!

Yes, I second that you need to talk to your doctor! I have two friends with rare disorders (2 different ones) that made sex painful for them. One was able to take meds to solve the problem. The other still struggles occasionally, but her doctors are helping her get answers and it’s getting better. There’s help and hope!

So yeah, I think there are some men who have real issues, but this is a physical difficulty your husband should talk to his doctor about. Encourage him to pursue answers. Saying a prayer for you both!!!

This is a source of pain and frustration and worse…resentment. I admit it. I love him. I truly love my husband and he’s a sweetie but I resent this. It is due to this reason we can’t have children either. I feel I’ve been robbed and that I’m not a “real” wife even though we did manage to have some intercourse a bit after the surgery. The fact that his condition returned has been grating on me and honestly there is nothing we can do. Yes, he needs to lose weight (I do too) but even if he lost a ton of weight, the problem still remains. It is TOO small. 🙁