Comments on: Q&A with J: A Guide to Using Personal Lubricant https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Wed, 16 Mar 2016 09:54:51 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 By: Jim Christian https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-50133 Wed, 16 Mar 2016 09:54:51 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-50133 In reply to Jonathan.

Cool! That’s like my Mustard-squirt bottle! Right down to the lid! Good find! That too can be set in a pan of hot water!

]]> By: Jim Christian https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-50130 Wed, 16 Mar 2016 09:52:40 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-50130 I’m 58, my wife 51, so we use the stuff to get started with massages and touching because I have rough hands. And then, her natural lubrication takes over after an orgasm or two. But never, ever the chemical, silicone or glycerol/glycol-based lubes, ever. I don’t want it on me and I don’t want it in my wife, ever. We’re talking internal tissue, sensitive mucous membrane leading to the womb via the cervix, ladies and gents. I don’t trust anything of a non-vegetable solution for this problem (it’s a GOOD problem!:). We use Carrington Farms Coconut oil for massage. It’s extra-virgin, unrefined, cold pressed. It’s in the stores in a square tub, perhaps a 6 or 8 ounce container. We put it in a tall mustard-squirter that has one of those little caps attached to a long skinny nozzle. This brand, anyway, is solid at around 70 or 75 degrees, so I heat it to liquid, then pour it it into the squirt bottle. About the time I hear my gal in the shower (night time showers on a winter night are the clue), I break out the bottle and put it in a pan of water on the stove to warm it up while I take MY shower. A couple of minutes, it’s warm and ready to go. We love the stuff, and you always start off with nice warm oil. Our sheets are flannel, maroon and hunter green, if there are stains, they come out in the wash or don’t show.

For those who can’t tolerate the coconut oil, Trader Joe’s organic Grapeseed oil is really, REALLY good too. It’s our go-to for quickies. Mostly, you need to test on a sensitive patch of skin, say close to the arm pit maybe, to make sure you aren’t allergic. Anywho, my two-cents, more like $1.98! When it comes to making my woman feel good, there’s no end to my quest! Enjoy! It’s why we’re here! Ladies, we men love when you love us!

]]> By: Jonathan https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-49839 Fri, 11 Mar 2016 19:09:00 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-49839 We use fractionated coconut oil–it’s always liquid:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00PEUVPZU

I found that using the push spout on the bottle that it came in was sort of messy, so I bought this squeeze bottle that allows just a little out by tipping it upsidedown. Works great!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004PX4SLK

]]> By: Eric https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-49835 Fri, 11 Mar 2016 14:05:20 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-49835 After years of my wife fighting UTI’s with antibiotics, we quit using Vaseline and switched to Astroglide in a squeeze bottle. Still an occasional problem, but not as much. I don’t think it was the Vaseline itself that caused the problem, but that it came in a wide-mouth jar, into which you dip your fingers to use. Fingers carry germs.

My suggestion: any lube should come in a tube or squeeze bottle, with much less chance of contamination. Occasionally I’ll notice a 12 or 16-ounce jar of coconut oil on a store shelf and consider buying it, since I’ve heard how great it is for a sexual lube. But I always pass it up, since it’s in a short, wide jar, like Vaseline, and therefore easy to contaminate. Does anyone know–can coconut oil be purchased in a tube or squeeze bottle? Or poured into such a bottle?
Eric

]]> By: Which Personal Lubricants Should You Try? | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-49811 Thu, 10 Mar 2016 19:15:41 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-49811 […] If you want to know how to use lubricant, check out my Guide to Using Personal Lubricant. […]

]]> By: Carolyn Noyer https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-46983 Sat, 09 Jan 2016 23:46:56 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-46983 I’m so glad to see this post even though it may be an old one. I may very well be getting married in the near future and I haven’t had sex in years and am past menopause. So I was afraid of being dry and painful for both of us. I plan to hold onto this post.
Thank you so much for it and I really like some of the other responses with many choices to use.

]]> By: Txkris https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-46577 Tue, 29 Dec 2015 15:51:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-46577 Ol Will got it all correct! We use the cheap LouAna stuff too, no smell or coconut taste. and yes it does stain. Usually no need to reapply either, love the stuff! We keep it in a 3 oz bottle by the bed and refill when necessary. We also run it under hot water to liquify as we’re getting ready for bed. 🙂

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-46415 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 14:39:51 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-46415 In reply to Kay.

You may not like the feel. It may feel a bit sticky, but it should last longer than water-based. It’s especially good in water environments. But picking the right lube can be a very personal decision depending on what you like and what works for you two.

]]> By: Kay https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-46397 Wed, 23 Dec 2015 02:19:06 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-46397 In reply to Anna-Kate.

Did I just get a bad batch of that diamond silicone lube then? I find it extremely sticky! And sticky is not good at all! Although I just tried another brand and it felt the same way… So do I just not like the feel of silicone?

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2015/12/14/qa-with-j-a-guide-to-using-personal-lubricant/#comment-46286 Sun, 20 Dec 2015 22:52:30 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=10496#comment-46286 In reply to J from elsewhere.

Ha! Yep. 😉

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