Comments on: Newsflash, Hubbies! She Loves Foreplay.

By: J

Tue, 15 Mar 2016 16:00:10 +0000

In reply to Melvin. :)

By: Melvin

Melvin — Tue, 15 Mar 2016 15:41:24 +0000

Me and my wife covered the bases before we were married and once we got married I was just going for the home run derby. I’m so glad I came across this post! I’ve noticed that I’ve been lazy and have just done the bare minimum of foreplay and go straight to sex. I’ll work more on this.

By: Aly

Aly — Tue, 08 Mar 2016 19:53:22 +0000

In reply to J. Great! Looking forward

By: J

Mon, 15 Feb 2016 17:06:27 +0000

In reply to Corey.

Your wife has to deal with the underlying issue. Ultimately, sex is not just about reproduction. I wonder what kind of teaching she has received and how sexual intimacy makes her reflect on her emotional pain. I would suggest you gently encourage her to seek counseling with you, to grieve through this circumstance. And you and she need to study more about what sex means to a marriage.

If you think about it, Sarah and Abraham were still going at it after many years and, she thought, no hope whatsoever of getting pregnant. She wasn’t continuing to make love with him because she expected a child. (She happened to get one, but that was God’s sovereign plan for a nation.) The point is: Sex is more than making babies. It’s intimacy between husband and wife.

By: Sam

Sam — Fri, 12 Feb 2016 01:03:32 +0000

In reply to GS. I think I can honestly that I really struggle with jealousy over your awful plight I think most can also attest to that but God bless you with the stamina and true love to really meet her needs and eventually fine the extreme pleasure that I find in giving without getting. we find not even always having an orgasm can be super. Go for it

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By: GS

GS — Mon, 08 Feb 2016 20:09:59 +0000

It’s definitely not the case that it is always the husband who neglects this issue. In my marriage, I am the one who loves the foreplay such as erotic communication, slow undressing, passionate slow touching and long make out sessions, etc. And my wife has a high sex drive (she gets genuinely upset if we don’t make live *at least* twice per day) and is very secure about her body (which I give her a plethora of reason to be). She just tells me she likes jumping right into it because she’s too impatient (“hungry”) to wait for the main event. To me it is actually disappointing because I equally love the main event and the gradual passionate events leading up to it. I’d love to take my time enjoying every inch of her and could happily do this for hours (literally) before jumping into it. But as soon as I engage in any act of foreplay for even a couple minutes she’ll starting begging me for direct intercourse. Our sex drives are equal, and as I said I love the main event just as much, but it seems to only be a disappointment to me to be without the foreplay.

By: Corey

Corey — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 05:14:07 +0000

In reply to libl. My wife is not able to have children, so sex is always a struggle, like once every 3-6 months. I LOVE foreplay, from sexy clothing to touch, but she doesn't. If we do it, its missionary and that's it. I've asked about games, Fore play, or even setting. But she is not interested. She doesn't even like talking about sex. Suggestions please!

By: J

Sat, 06 Feb 2016 20:40:11 +0000

In reply to Paul Byerly. I agree! I was just aiming this one at the hubbies. Thanks, Paul!

By: J

Sat, 06 Feb 2016 20:39:48 +0000

In reply to libl. No, no, no! What I said didn't come across right, I guess. We influence each other. But neither spouse can control the other. So if you want to feel better, the best way to go about that is to make changes yourself. :D