Comments on: What Wives Are Missing in Marital Intimacy https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Sun, 03 Sep 2017 03:01:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.2 By: If the Sex is So Great, Why Aren’t You Satisfied? | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53347 Mon, 30 May 2016 20:03:12 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53347 […] entirely possible to have amazing sex and not be satisfied with your sexual intimacy. Maybe you long for more kisses, wish the foreplay would last longer, want more variety in your marriage bed, or your lovemaking […]

]]> By: Burgess1964 https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53299 Sun, 29 May 2016 02:41:26 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53299 I love to kiss. Hooked from the first one. In fact if a guy’s kiss did NOT knock my socks off. NEXT! I an so oooh serious. My husband is a great kisser. Does not kiss me enough. Basically he does not Like to Kiss very much. He gives me this crap that he always thinks about the end game. When it doesn’t end like THAT he is disappointed. I think his reason is a cover for If it cannot end like i want then I don’t want to kiss.

]]> By: Jani https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53296 Sun, 29 May 2016 02:39:48 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53296 My husband says he just has no desires towards me like he once did. Says he doesn’t enjoy my kisses & if he has anything to do with me complains about me not being able to heat him up, although he basically wants nothing to do with foreplay. My response at first was to cry privately a lot… I have missed my intimacy with him. I have missed the looks he once gave me & how he spoke to me & of me.
Then I stopped feeling sorry for myself & began to pray that I would draw closer to my Heavenly Father. I once was closer to HIM & drifted away. I pray/prayed that my relationship would grow towards HIM in the way HE desires to have soul intamacy with me.
My husband remains aloof, even though I have not stopped praying for our intamacy to grow.
Meanwhile, my Heavenly Father gives me love in a way no human can match. I am grateful to know HIM & someday when this life is over, I will be with the ONE who’s love remains forever.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53134 Mon, 23 May 2016 23:19:04 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53134 In reply to Anonymous.

I’m not trying to create problems where there aren’t any. If you’re missing it, talk to him. If you feel like you’re getting enough affection with what you’re doing, then no worries.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53131 Mon, 23 May 2016 22:23:44 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53131 Is it something I should be concerned about? Should I address it with him? I hear so many people say it is a barometer of a relationship. He’ll hug me once in awhile and say he loves me. I think it may just be his personality. We have a kid, and I feel we have a strong family core, I just don’t know of I should be concerned.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53107 Mon, 23 May 2016 19:21:56 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53107 In reply to Anonymous.

Yes, it’s unusual. If you’re not missing it, though…

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-53104 Mon, 23 May 2016 18:51:37 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-53104 My husband and I have been married 3 years. During that time, he has only kissed me on the mouth maybe 3 times. Is this unusual? He says he is attracted to me, but I’m not sure I believe that. He is a great guy, and I think he loves me as a very good friend. But I think maybe I did him a disservice by marrying him, because he did not get someone he passionately loves. The dynamic works for us, as long as I don’t let doubts creep in.

]]> By: IntimacySeeker https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-52954 Wed, 18 May 2016 19:42:35 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-52954 A masterful kiss can make a girl weak in the knees. Great post!

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-52936 Tue, 17 May 2016 21:54:53 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-52936 In reply to Rebecca.

I wrote about a similar situation here: When His Kiss Tastes Bad.

]]> By: Rebecca https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/05/16/what-wives-are-missing-in-marital-intimacy/#comment-52930 Tue, 17 May 2016 21:20:20 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=14491#comment-52930 On one hand I wished my husband and I kissed more but at the same time I don’t push it because he doesn’t brush his teeth. When we do kiss I discreetly limit it to pecks on the lips or I may linger on his lips but then avoid letting him take it further yet I want so much more. How do I approach the subject with him? He showers regularly but I have no idea what’s up with the teeth brushing.

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