Comments on: Does Your Sex Drive Take a Dive in the Holiday Season? https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 06 Dec 2016 04:19:50 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.2 By: B https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/#comment-60386 Tue, 06 Dec 2016 04:19:50 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=19280#comment-60386 In reply to Shelly Evans.

Saying a prayer for you, Shelly

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/#comment-60383 Tue, 06 Dec 2016 03:30:13 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=19280#comment-60383 In reply to Shelly Evans.

Oh my goodness, Shelly. May God hold you in His strong arms, and may you feel His love through your husband. I ache for your loss. I’m glad you’re finding ways to still be joyful.

]]> By: Shelly Evans https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/#comment-60380 Tue, 06 Dec 2016 03:13:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=19280#comment-60380 This is my first Christmas without my sweet baby boy I gave birth and said goodbye to in February. I’ve been really sad these last few days after putting my tree up and decorating the house for Christmas without my Nathan on my hip. He would be 10 months old now and would have been so much fun. My husband has had the man cold and we hadn’t made love in a little bit but we finally did last night. Today was a much better day. I made my traditional gingerbread cookies with our 3 teenagers and they were so happy to see me doing Christmas stuff and being joyful instead of sad. That connection with my man helps me manage the grief that seems to want to consume me this Christmas.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/#comment-60374 Mon, 05 Dec 2016 19:18:31 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=19280#comment-60374 Both stress and fatigue impacts our intimacy during the holiday season. This is why I do not press my wife for sex during the Thanksgiving and Christmas season…usually I will wait until mid January before I initiate sex again. I know she appreciates this from me.

]]> By: Charlie M https://hotholyhumorous.com/2016/12/05/does-your-sex-drive-take-a-dive-in-the-holiday-season/#comment-60371 Mon, 05 Dec 2016 17:43:37 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=19280#comment-60371 Thank you, thank you, thank you. We just had this conversation at home yesterday and I felt really bad when I realized that this was happening. We can’t seem to get on the same schedule lately and some of it’s the many extra 5,000+ things that are added between Thanksgiving and Christmas. I sat here trying to figure out what’s wrong with me, is there something wrong with us, what do I need to do, is there something else bothering me??? Yada, yada, yada, now I’ve taken my deep breath and realize that maybe there’s not really anything wrong but everything is exactly how it likely should be and I need to make a few small changes.

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