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		By: A Loveliness of Links – December 2016 - The Forgiven Wife		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A Loveliness of Links – December 2016 - The Forgiven Wife]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] Q&#038;A with J: Can Christians Get Sex Tips from Cosmo? Hot, Holy &#038; Humorous [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Q&amp;A with J: Can Christians Get Sex Tips from Cosmo? Hot, Holy &amp; Humorous [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Jason		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2017 13:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My wife stopped buying Cosmo many years ago, 20+, she says she was buying it for the articles on exercise, diet and fashion. Once I pointed out that every issue had a column of some sort about adultery, having sex with one man and married to another, she stopped buying it. Today we see it at the grocery store and those same headlines still appear on the cover. It&#039;s recycled garbage.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife stopped buying Cosmo many years ago, 20+, she says she was buying it for the articles on exercise, diet and fashion. Once I pointed out that every issue had a column of some sort about adultery, having sex with one man and married to another, she stopped buying it. Today we see it at the grocery store and those same headlines still appear on the cover. It&#8217;s recycled garbage.</p>
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		By: Best Christian Sex Links of the Week &#8212; Christmas Edition &#124; Married Christian Sex		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] Can Christians get sex tips from Cosmo? &#8212; I guess you could, but honestly, there&#8217;s better stuff on our blog and those we link to! For free. [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Can Christians get sex tips from Cosmo? &#8212; I guess you could, but honestly, there&#8217;s better stuff on our blog and those we link to! For free. [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Elaine @MilitaryWifeAfterGod		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Elaine @MilitaryWifeAfterGod]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2016 04:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is something I have been wondering for a very long time and you answered it so well. Thank you SO much for your post!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is something I have been wondering for a very long time and you answered it so well. Thank you SO much for your post!</p>
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		By: Eric Wiggin		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2016 20:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I agree mostly with J&#039;s comments on this, and I do think that COSMO  and many other magazines, books and movies fall into the category of tempting the weaker brother or sister (see Romans 14:13-23). And that includes some who read and contribute to this blog loop.

Re COSMO. I&#039;ve written 12 novels for teen girls, all published by well-known Christian houses, and when I was writing that sort of novel I would sometimes peruse the book section of a large chain store (not Walmart) near my home to see what teen girls were reading. The book department  was next to a well-stocked magazine section, and my eye caught an unfamiliar title: COSMOGIRL. I quickly discovered that it contained some ungodly, salacious suggestions aimed at young teen girls. Knowing that the upper management of this chain are professing Christians, I complained to the manager. He took immediate action in my presence, and I haven&#039;t seen this title since. I&#039;ve also discovered that the leading book-fair promoter in American public schools once had (maybe still has) a series of titles not offered in schools but promoted via major chain bookstores. As a former public school teacher I&#039;ve occasionally taken books from girls in class, when I discovered them being passed around, disrupting the class. One day in a sixth-grade classroom such a book was creating a sensation amongst some giggling girls. I apprehended the book.

The passage on the well-worn page described a nude couple, with specific, intimate details of their act of intercourse. I asked the young miss where she&#039;d gotten the book. She affirmed that she&#039;d bought it at a bookstore, and told me her mother knew, but admitted that her mom (who had not read the book) thought it was okay, since it had the imprint of the books sold in the school book fair. I told this girl of 12 that if she wanted it back she needed to have her mom come to school and get it, since I was leaving it at the office--and I did so.

Now, I don&#039;t promote boycotts, and I seldom join them. But as a parent, former teacher and grandparent, I feel a strong need to protect the minds of immature children. Most do need to know more about the real details of sex than they can learn from their friends, or even in a sex-ed class. But porn--in photos or on the pages of a novel or magazine--is something we parents have a godly responsibility to protect them from.

Eric]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree mostly with J&#8217;s comments on this, and I do think that COSMO  and many other magazines, books and movies fall into the category of tempting the weaker brother or sister (see Romans 14:13-23). And that includes some who read and contribute to this blog loop.</p>
<p>Re COSMO. I&#8217;ve written 12 novels for teen girls, all published by well-known Christian houses, and when I was writing that sort of novel I would sometimes peruse the book section of a large chain store (not Walmart) near my home to see what teen girls were reading. The book department  was next to a well-stocked magazine section, and my eye caught an unfamiliar title: COSMOGIRL. I quickly discovered that it contained some ungodly, salacious suggestions aimed at young teen girls. Knowing that the upper management of this chain are professing Christians, I complained to the manager. He took immediate action in my presence, and I haven&#8217;t seen this title since. I&#8217;ve also discovered that the leading book-fair promoter in American public schools once had (maybe still has) a series of titles not offered in schools but promoted via major chain bookstores. As a former public school teacher I&#8217;ve occasionally taken books from girls in class, when I discovered them being passed around, disrupting the class. One day in a sixth-grade classroom such a book was creating a sensation amongst some giggling girls. I apprehended the book.</p>
<p>The passage on the well-worn page described a nude couple, with specific, intimate details of their act of intercourse. I asked the young miss where she&#8217;d gotten the book. She affirmed that she&#8217;d bought it at a bookstore, and told me her mother knew, but admitted that her mom (who had not read the book) thought it was okay, since it had the imprint of the books sold in the school book fair. I told this girl of 12 that if she wanted it back she needed to have her mom come to school and get it, since I was leaving it at the office&#8211;and I did so.</p>
<p>Now, I don&#8217;t promote boycotts, and I seldom join them. But as a parent, former teacher and grandparent, I feel a strong need to protect the minds of immature children. Most do need to know more about the real details of sex than they can learn from their friends, or even in a sex-ed class. But porn&#8211;in photos or on the pages of a novel or magazine&#8211;is something we parents have a godly responsibility to protect them from.</p>
<p>Eric</p>
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		By: Bobthemusicguy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2016 12:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Very good advice, I think. And you&#039;re right about having a strong foundation and knowing your limits. When our sex life was restored several months ago, I started to look into some sites and quickly realized that many were really porn, not just visually but in the words, and even in the underlying message. I thank God for sites like yours and some of the others you mentioned. Having a firm Christian worldview behind them, they focus on building the marriage. Many secular sites, even if &quot;tastefully&quot; done, promote the idea that sex is super important in and of itself,  not because of the intimacy it grows from and which it further strengthens. A couple may engage in all kinds of acts, positions, new techniques, etc., but may do it selfishly, seeking a greater physical thrill rather than a closer relationship.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good advice, I think. And you&#8217;re right about having a strong foundation and knowing your limits. When our sex life was restored several months ago, I started to look into some sites and quickly realized that many were really porn, not just visually but in the words, and even in the underlying message. I thank God for sites like yours and some of the others you mentioned. Having a firm Christian worldview behind them, they focus on building the marriage. Many secular sites, even if &#8220;tastefully&#8221; done, promote the idea that sex is super important in and of itself,  not because of the intimacy it grows from and which it further strengthens. A couple may engage in all kinds of acts, positions, new techniques, etc., but may do it selfishly, seeking a greater physical thrill rather than a closer relationship.</p>
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		By: Crystal		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Crystal]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2016 23:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a great response!  And I do highly recommend Sheila&#039;s books!  They are great!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great response!  And I do highly recommend Sheila&#8217;s books!  They are great!!</p>
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