Comments on: Q&A with J: Oral Sex, Good Habits, and “Ladies First” Orgasm https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 27 Nov 2018 02:04:40 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 By: Is Giving a "Blow Job" Enjoyable for the Wife? | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-73913 Tue, 27 Nov 2018 02:04:40 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-73913 […] Q&A with J: Oral Sex, Good Habits, and “Ladies First” Orgasm […]

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69259 Thu, 15 Feb 2018 22:14:56 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69259 In reply to Anon.

Hmmm, sounds like y’all could benefit from a conversation prompt book. With one chapter addressed to certain men, “What if you never got have an orgasm again with sex? How frustrated would you be? THEN WHY DO YOU EXPECT YOUR WIFE TO GO SO LONG WITHOUT ONE?!” Okay, I’d figure out a nicer way to say it…

Saying a prayer for you right now!

]]> By: Anon https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69257 Thu, 15 Feb 2018 20:05:00 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69257 In reply to S.

Gosh is sex really like that?! Where the woman experiences orgasm! If I’m honest I’m very jealous reading this. I wish our sex life was like this. I’ve been married 15 years and my husband is very ignorant and selfish and once he comes that’s It, there’s no point in carrying on then is there?! I could cry writing this. I’m so sexually frustrated atm. I enjoy turning him on and giving him pleasure but why can’t he recipricate? It’s making me frustrated and I resent him at times. I’ve said I’m not satisfied and have suggested things to help but them he just lays there in what looks and sounds like ecstasy and I’m there thinking well good for you! It’s really worn me down over the years and I must confess to faking it to end it quicker which probably hasn’t helped things. I’ve bought a vibrater now which gives me that release but it’s a terrible shame we can’t experience fulfilling sex together.

]]> By: Q&A with J: Imagery & Arousal, Tantra Sex, and Devotions | Hot, Holy & Humorous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69254 Thu, 15 Feb 2018 18:34:01 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69254 […] Last week, I covered three reader questions that didn’t warrant an entire post, and today I’m back at it with three more! […]

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69185 Sun, 11 Feb 2018 23:06:33 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69185 In reply to Joseph.

It’s down to 96 now! 🙂

]]> By: Joseph https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69184 Sun, 11 Feb 2018 22:08:56 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69184 @ J. if you’d like some help getting through those last 120 emails let me know. I could put together I program to search each email for keywords and send excerpts from your book as a response 😉 lol
“J. 2.0”

]]> By: Ol' Will https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69149 Fri, 09 Feb 2018 00:23:45 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69149 The lady with lockjaw:
Most likely her problem is defined under the umbrella term, “Temporomandibular Joint Syndrome (TMJ)”
I Googled “TMJ treatment” and found a good article on medicinenet.com with much information on causes, effects (including lockjaw), and treatments. I would, of course, stay away from most of the drugs listed and especially the opioids. The potential for side effects with most of them and especially the risk of addiction is just too great. My rule is that before I even fill the prescription, I research the drug thoroughly.
Then I Googled, “tmj and chiropractic” and found an article at the HuffPost site by a dentist who says he’s not against chiropractic for the classic problems. I’m not telling anyone to dump their chiropractor. I’m just providing another bit of information that may help her.
The jaw-pain lady may know all of this already but she may not. So I hope you pass this on to her.
I hope her problem gets resolved soon but, meanwhile, I agree with your advice.

]]> By: Ol' Will https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69148 Thu, 08 Feb 2018 23:40:23 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69148 “…thank you very much.”
Thanks for the grin. 🙂

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69145 Thu, 08 Feb 2018 17:19:12 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69145 In reply to Anonymous.

According to the General Social Survey, which has tracked sexual frequency since the late 1980s, the average for married couples is 58 times per year. That’s just over once a week. However, that’s an average and includes those who are doing it like bunnies and the 15-20% of marriages presumed to be sexless (than than 10 times per year). A median calculation would be more helpful in this regard. For those who don’t remember any statistics terminology from school, an average is dumping everything into the basket, dividing by the number of people, and coming out with a number. A median shows a bell curve so that you can see an average range, but the extremes on either side don’t throw off the middle calculation as much.

I believe married couples should be having sex at least once a week, but for most higher-drive spouses, it needs to be at least twice a week or more. And yes, I wish I could speak to wives like yours and many other lower-drive spouses and just chat about how to make this happen more often and enjoyably in your marriage.

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/02/08/qa-with-j-oral-sex-lockjaw/#comment-69142 Thu, 08 Feb 2018 15:56:19 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=23978#comment-69142 After reading your comments about making sex a habit, I chuckled and asked myself “do couples really have sex 2-3 times a week (or more)’? Unless you actually track this, I think most people really don’t know. For example, if you asked my spouse this question, she would say 2-3 times a month. I have actually tracked this for the past 5 years…the numbers ranged from 13 to 18 times a year (sex once every 3.5 weeks). I often wonder how often couples do have sex…

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