Comments on: 5 Holidays to Celebrate with Your Spouse (Besides Valentine’s)

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By: Johanna Galyen

Johanna Galyen — Sat, 03 Mar 2018 13:37:35 +0000

In reply to Mark.

Mark,

Just ask her. Talk to her and see if she would be comfortable doing that for you. Maybe this is too simplistic of an illustration, but my husband occasionally asks me to bake a new recipe. While that version of cheesecake or chocolate confection may not be my first pick (or maybe because there are 5000 recipes out there that are similar), I can still look at it and think. Ok, why not. I’ll give it a try and if it doesn’t work then I’ll know.

But if he never asks me, then I’ll never attempt the new recipe.

One last thing. Sex is for the both of you. While there can be times (or turns) that you take to focus on each other, it is also about receiving. She may not want to do that, and that is ok. ButIf she’s willing, make it easy for her. Try it in the shower together or shortly thereafter when are you extra clean and nice smelling. ~ Johanna

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By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 03:51:43 +0000

J, cant believe you missed cake and cunnilingus day. I have overheard the ladies in the office talking about it. Been out there for a while.

By: Mark

Mark — Mon, 19 Feb 2018 04:27:52 +0000

Thank you J, my wife and I center our oral intimacy on her, it turns us both on,, she has free rein to do whatever she wants to me and I her, I don’t feel like I’m missing anything by her not giving me a BJ, but now I’m curious..

By: J

Sun, 18 Feb 2018 03:16:16 +0000

In reply to Mark. Yes, there are. I have heard from wives who do that act not because they enjoy it, but because they believe it blesses their husband and that is what they enjoy. It's a means to an end that they value. Other wives really do get turned on by it. What the breakdown is, I don't know. But I have heard both sides of that equation, as well as wives who really dislike it so much or experience such physical discomfort that they take it off the sexual menu. As I've said before, I encourage couples to try oral sex, but it's not a requirement for having satisfying sexual intimacy in marriage.

By: Mark

Mark — Sun, 18 Feb 2018 02:49:51 +0000

I idea of receiving a blow job sounds like fun,, I don’t ask for one and my wife doesn’t pursue giving me one, though she has kissed and teased and fondled me in that area.

I feel fulfilled in how we are intimate and certainly enjoy delicately tasting her clitoris and labia,, but always had the feeling that maybe women don’t enjoy giving a BJ so I never asked her as I didn’t want to be all about me.

This may sound silly,, as we have mirrors, our intimacy is slow and unhurried, but no BJ. I certainly don’t want her to give me one if she is uncomfortable,,,,

So I’m just wondering if there are women who give them and doesn’t enjoy it, but does it anyway?

By: WifeyM

WifeyM — Sun, 18 Feb 2018 01:20:10 +0000

In reply to Becky. I think that seems fair Sounds like a fun way to celebrate !

By: J

Sat, 17 Feb 2018 14:59:56 +0000

In reply to alchemist. Yes, indeed! Not sure when and how to spare three weeks, but it's in my life goals to head to that beautiful country/continent.

By: J

Sat, 17 Feb 2018 14:58:42 +0000

In reply to Becky. Wow, I did not see that one in my research. Interesting, though...I don't really like cake. :)