Comments on: 5 Ways to Initiate Sex with Your Spouse https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Fri, 07 Aug 2020 15:27:53 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.2 By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70250 Tue, 03 Apr 2018 16:29:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70250 In reply to Lynn.

Ah, I see! (I couldn’t find that online.)

]]> By: Lynn https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70248 Tue, 03 Apr 2018 15:18:35 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70248 So happy for you, B!

]]> By: Lynn https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70247 Tue, 03 Apr 2018 15:17:43 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70247 In reply to J.

Nocturnal Penile Tumescence. NPT is a handy little term. Sometimes he’s say no and I say, “Would you like to have some?” He usually laughs and tells me to go back to sleep.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70243 Tue, 03 Apr 2018 14:05:01 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70243 In reply to B.

I think missing hints is more common than you think, B. But regardless, I’m so glad you’re moving past this!

]]> By: B https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70235 Tue, 03 Apr 2018 04:24:21 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70235 Oh my. As much as I wish it were different, as much as I don’t want it to be this way, I’m gonna have to agree with number 5.

I wish I could be enticing and coy, but my husband, as much as I love him, just does not get hints. He seemed genuinely sad when I told him he had probably missed out on sex a couple hundred times because he didn’t respond when I came on to him.

For a long time I really let this bother me, thinking if he cared or wanted sex with me he would’ve paid attention and caught onto my obvious hints.

The good news is, I’m finally getting past this and getting over myself and just asking. We have a lot more sex now.

Yup, I still wish I could just be cute and flirty and that he’d find me irresistible – and I still kinda hate having to ask – but when I just ask, we have a lot more sex. 🙂

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70203 Sun, 01 Apr 2018 20:57:52 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70203 In reply to Lynn.

I feel like I should know, but what’s “NPT”?

]]> By: Lynn https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70202 Sun, 01 Apr 2018 20:17:02 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70202 My husband gets up a few times during the night to use the bathroom. If I’m awake and not sleep-deprived at that moment when he comes back to bed, I’ll ask him if he has any ‘NPT’. Usually he says “I’m ok” but if he says “Well…”, then it’s on.

]]> By: Mark https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70192 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 21:08:49 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70192 Nice article,, love all 5 little playful hints as it creates passion between spouses that causes spouses to mentally or physically bond.

Strangely our “date” is going to start in a few minutes as my wife and I are going to shampoo a couple of carpets in the B & B, she is managing. For some reason we see the romance in that. She needs it done today and me helping her, stimulates her mind and mine as well. (silly,, right?)

One of the things that becomes a reality after 37 years of marriage, with our kids being adults and we have 3 grandkids, is tomorrow is promised to no-one. So we are choosing to savor every minute of everyday with each other.

We enjoy reading different ideas in this site, because when it comes to making love or simply cuddling, it truly is all about the experience of being emotionally connected.

My favorite words in this article is “dating” and “anticipation”. Whether anticipation builds for 2 days or a week or two (because of life’s circumstances) that makes flirting even more fun and playful.
The string of pearls is nice, may have to buy her some cultured pearls for an anniversary gift!!!

Intimacy is nice, but ultimately as the years add up, bonding and emotionally connecting is our strength.

]]> By: Nick Peters https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70187 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 16:49:02 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70187 I would encourage wives to not try to be subtle. We men are not that great at getting hints. My own wife is really low-drive, but there have been at least three times when she’s been in the mood and hinted at me and I missed it and…..

Excuse me…..

I have to go mourn now….

]]> By: Andrew Budek-Schmeisser https://hotholyhumorous.com/2018/03/31/5-ways-initiate-sex/#comment-70185 Sat, 31 Mar 2018 16:25:29 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=24492#comment-70185 Though any of this would be unthinkable in my circumstances, I enjoyed reading these ideas (and, honestly, wondering what Might Have Been).

I’m going out on a limb here (even Asians blush!) but how about, for those with swimming pools and privacy fencing and a place to park the kids, a game of Marco Polo, minus swimsuits?

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