Comments on: Do Average People Have Rock Star Sex? YES!

By: Kathy

Kathy — Fri, 15 Jan 2021 21:40:29 +0000

In reply to alchemist. I love having lights like that in our bedroom. We have a string of battery operated lights that are just on top of a dresser and then we also have some rope lighting that’s tucked behind our vaulted ceiling trim. It’s the perfect amount of light for some fun.

By: J

Thu, 04 Jul 2019 13:41:16 +0000

In reply to Penny Lane. Congratulations, and may your marriage have many years of blessing. I certainly believe marriages are best when both spouses feel they've "married up." ;)

By: Penny Lane

Penny Lane — Wed, 03 Jul 2019 14:35:48 +0000

I would definitely categorize myself as a fairly normal, average bodied gal. I am a smallish size, but I have sagging mom breasts, saddlebags, cellulite, and occasional acne. My husband-to-be is a former model – he looks younger than his age, is 6’3″, athletic and has the kind of eyes women want to drown themselves in. And dimples. (Lord have mercy!) When I first got to know him it was a little hard to believe he was attracted to me – not just to my personality (which is amazing by the way – I truly am a lovely lady) but also to my looks. I see myself as average. He sees me as extraordinary. I know our sex will be amazing and mind blowing because of several factors. We love each other’s personality strengths, we support each other’s goals, we are creative together and are open about our struggles and failures. AND we communicate about sex!!! We have taken the initiative to talk about sex openly, explicitly and specifically. No touching beyond kissing – just talking. Everything is laid out on the table. So even though we are just engaged and not in the tangible side of the act yet our minds are filled with only each other – and it’s amazing.

By: EEW

EEW — Fri, 14 Jun 2019 21:10:09 +0000

This reminds me that a lot of women don’t believe they’re sexy when pregnant. We have four kids (that’s 36 months of pregnancy}. How can a wife NOT be sex appealing when she’s carrying your child? The God who told said ” become one flesh,” also said “be fruitful and multiply.”
“One flesh” also implies getting naked often, and both of you enjoying it. But possibly the hottest years of marriage are those between menopause–after a wife has finally learned to accept her husband’s compliments and when aging slows you both down, at 65+. As for those fleshy parts, the phrase “joints of her thighs” (KJV of S of S) can also be rendered “cheeks of her bottom.” Love it, wives!

By: Chris

Chris — Fri, 14 Jun 2019 03:28:42 +0000

In reply to Lynn. Amen lynn!!!!!!! Its hard to be a man who likes curvy women. The parts we want to see and enjoy are the parts they try their hardest to cover up.

By: J

Wed, 12 Jun 2019 16:04:41 +0000

In reply to Lynn. Love this.

By: Lynn

Lynn — Wed, 12 Jun 2019 13:24:25 +0000

My husband gets to have rock star sex because he makes me feel like the sexiest woman on earth. I am aging and overweight, and I never was a very good-looking woman. But when I see my husband is aroused and full of desire for me, I feel fantastic – and he gets the benefit. Sisters, please believe your husband when he tells you he likes to see you!

By: Doug

Doug — Tue, 11 Jun 2019 13:23:22 +0000

Does not Ephesians speak directly to husbands about healing a wife’s negative body perception by their speech? “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church… cleansing her by the washing with water through the word.”

By: Lizzy

Lizzy — Tue, 11 Jun 2019 03:53:43 +0000

I love the first point about how you will see what you’re looking for. If you struggle with your body, all around you will see people with that desired trait or body. But if you just look for happy marriages, you will find they belong to a huge diversity of people in every way!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 10 Jun 2019 21:22:54 +0000

To have “rock star sex”, both partners need to be giving. In my casual observation, the most attractive people tend to be less giving. I am saying the basically the same thing as poster #1.