Great article & with boldness and clarity how married couples can enjoy this part of marriage

Maybe send her the article with a simple note asking, “What do you think about this?”

I was much less than an A-cup, and I don’t need to Google BA before and after, because I already did that a long time ago and saw hundreds of comparisons. I know what’s out there. Moreover, these men are often telling me about their wives who have A-cups and less. Look, I don’t get it either, because I felt very weird without much going on there, but my husband really, honestly was happy with my body. Are there some men who aren’t that way? Sure. Of course. But not every guy is. In fact, a lot of guys aren’t.

I enjoyed reading the article.

I am a man who weighs 120 pounds.

I have absolutely zero muscle on me.

My wife tells me she loves my body and that’s enough for me.

If only women would recognize that we love their bodies too and have that be enough.

I wonder if there is a difference between men making love to their small chested wives and men having sex with small chested women whom they are not married to. I can’t imagine any decent man feeling like a pedophile for making love to his wife, no matter her breast size. However, I *can* imagine a man feeling like a pedophile if he’s having sex (perhaps before marriage) with a small chested woman. Perhaps the men Anonymous has heard from have been channeling some pre-marital feelings they may have had.

As a man, I can say unequivocally that my wife’s breast size means nothing — absolutely nothing — to me. This was also true of the women I dated before I met my wife. And, I don’t think I’m unusual in this regard. If I could wave a magic wand, it would be to make women see their bodies as their husbands do. I love my wife’s body, but she is constantly complaining about it and has even apologized to me for her small breasts. It breaks my heart but my attempts to make her feel beautiful have always failed. And, from what I read, we are not alone.

But let’s turn the tables. I am bald and have been since my early twenties. My wife has often expressed her appreciation for a full head of hair. I don’t have one, but I do not feel any less loved because of it. My wife loves me just as I am, and I accept and appreciate that.

I’m talking about those of us with much LESS than an A cup. I would be thrilled to have breasts even that size. Maybe the comparison to a boy was made because even most teenage girls have more breast tissue. That comment wasn’t about me but it was said in front of me about another woman. Try googling breast augmentation before and after pictures and I’m sure you’ll see more women like us…literally just nipples, no other breast tissue. See that and then you may understand why people may mistake women like us for a male. And as for the Christian men you survey, most of them probably have no experience with seeing micro-sized breasts either.