I can’t explain why this thought occurred after reading this article, maybe it was conscientious and believing in our body (mind too )

But the constant factor in mind of great sex is how anticipation builds with each individual spouse. Whether both have similar sex drives or if one is higher than the other.

Those that have a lower sex drive than their HD partner, still have a sex drive, He/she will still need, want and have sex, with their HD partner.

It did occur to me, the LD partner’s mind has to be stimulated to know that the one they love (the HD spouse) is building up an enormous amount of anticipation, becoming extremely aroused while exclusively desiring sex him/her as the one and only they will have sex with.

I think for a LD and a HD couple to exclusively love and choose to be married and nurture one another outside of sex, should make the sex way more fulfilling especially if the sex (including foreplay) is slow and unhurried, especially when there are no expectations put on one or the other. In fact the LD spouse can actually use the opportunity to drive the HD spouse nuts with slow love making.

It the sex is hurried (like 10 or 15 minutes or less with minimal or no foreplay) every time they make love, then communication lines need to be opened if not then the HD spouse is hanging by a thread.

I also wonder if slow and unhurried love making becomes a challenge for the HD spouse to slow it down and as a result be the reason why its their fault, they are staring into the ceiling unfulfilled and wondering what happen?

42% get more aroused with the sheets tucked in and I guess that means that 58% is able to become aroused either with sheets untucked or tucked in.

I admit, I grew up having to square the corners when I was a child. I wasn’t married then.

After I married my wife I adjusted with the way she “loosely” made the bed. (she didn’t tuck)

I discovered with my height, that with the sheets untucked feels more comfortable when I sleep. During intimacy, the untucked sheets are able to fly off the bed much easier.

Nothing wrong with the sheets tucked in, the sheets still will find their way onto the floor during intimacy.

Just making an observation.

I don’t care much about the bed-making myself. I like it sorta straight, but I’m going to get back in that bed in a few hours, so it doesn’t need to be that neat. And my hubby doesn’t care either.

Yeah, J, I don’t hold with that either, but I put it in for laughs. Made the rhyme run a bit better, too.

Hahaha! (But don’t keep that doobie burning, please? Lol.)