Comments on: 4 Research-Based Tips for Better Sex

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The Perks and Pitfalls of Sex Research | Hot, Holy & Humorous — Tue, 25 May 2021 18:38:28 +0000

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By: Ben

Ben — Fri, 25 Oct 2019 09:51:56 +0000

Great, great post of course as always, darn, wish we had “road friendly” bike routes near us. I really enjoy riding but our darn road is so dangerous, people fly and there’s no bike lane/side at all. You take your life into your own hands around here, ugh, guess we/I need to take them somewhere safe but just don’t like biking by myself, ugh, oh well, we’ll see but that’s again, another great one!! 🙂

By: Joseph

Joseph — Thu, 24 Oct 2019 13:46:38 +0000

This is one of my favorite post purely because I love everything on this list except running and my wife enjoys some of these as well.

Clean the house (She won’t admit it but it definitely makes a difference)
Talk (or make noise) during sex (Very important for both of us)
Eat dark chocolate (I buy her chocolate of some kind almost weekly; she loves it and expresses it)
Run, cycle, or swim (We are both way more active sexually when we consistently exercise)
-The difference for us is almost daily vs once or twice a week.
-except running because I hate it and it hurts my wife’s ankles lol

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 21 Oct 2019 22:23:32 +0000

In reply to J. Sorry, I missed that...my apologies.

By: J

Mon, 21 Oct 2019 21:57:33 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. Yep, I clearly said it's not a quid pro quo on the housecleaning/sex thing.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 21 Oct 2019 20:25:18 +0000

I would agree with 3 of the 4 tips. I do more chores than my wife (due to my wife’s health) and this has no effect on my wife’s interest in sex.

Also I do the chores around the house to benefit both of us, not to get some sex. I think it is unhealthy to reward working around the house with sex.

By: J

Mon, 21 Oct 2019 17:49:24 +0000

In reply to Tom. Hotel sex? Just kidding. How about establishing a routine where you set the timer for 5, 10, or 15 minutes, then clean up the bedroom together for that amount of time? You get as much done as you can, but not worry about the rest because you have a hard end-time. And then, you can reward yourselves with some nookie if you're both up for it!

By: Tom

Tom — Mon, 21 Oct 2019 16:43:35 +0000

Here’s a “yeah, but…” for #1. I completely agree with the sentiment. But what if it’s your wife junking up the bedroom? She’ll complain about the stack of books on my bedside table, yet be seemingly oblivious to the rest of the bedroom mess which is all hers.

By: J

Mon, 21 Oct 2019 15:32:30 +0000

In reply to Andrew Budek-Schmeisser. Preach! Lol.

By: Andrew Budek-Schmeisser

Andrew Budek-Schmeisser — Mon, 21 Oct 2019 14:37:27 +0000

O chocolate, the saints’ delight,
mighty morsel with no flaw,
I proclaim it’s only right
to seek your protection by the law.
You should be born in places guarded
by the meanest, hardest men;
visiting supplicants will be carded,
trespassers remanded to the Pen.
Your handlers must be deferential,
clean of limb, young and keen,
and your transit Presidential
in an armoured limousine.
Methinks you must be God’s essence,
and what be Heaven, without your presence?