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By: Your Wife’s Anxiety - Knowing Her Sexually

Your Wife’s Anxiety - Knowing Her Sexually — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 18:01:15 +0000

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By: Phiiip

Phiiip — Tue, 03 Mar 2020 19:42:35 +0000

I agree that sex is very good therapy for the mind and to lose yourself in with your partner.
When I have been stressed and overwhelmed by things I need to do, it is a real haven and does give such a feeling of well being.

My wife and I have been married for 43 years and recently my wife has developed a really imaginative approach to satisfying me in sex. It is so good to know that God continues to work with us in every part of our lives!

By: J

Mon, 02 Mar 2020 04:18:39 +0000

In reply to Mark. Thanks, Mark.

By: Mark

Mark — Sun, 01 Mar 2020 19:30:52 +0000

Thank you for sharing from the heart, in how you and your husband are drawn to each other in a very close and personal way, during difficult times.

By: J

Thu, 27 Feb 2020 19:56:08 +0000

In reply to Val Russell. My condolences!

By: EEW

EEW — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 17:40:56 +0000

“He just wants to see you naked.” I’m not sure if you wrote that, J, but simply watching one’s wife happily take her clothes off for him alone gives a husband a joy beyond physical pleasure. This reassures him that she, too, wishes an intimacy of the kind Moses wrote about—repeated by Jesus and Paul—“one flesh”: Not to see her artistically nude, but for her to be earthily naked is what satisfies a husband. This says she’s gladly his, and it’s the prelude to the full experience of becoming “one flesh” with the woman in which he has invested his life, in my case 56 years, and she’s more beautiful every time she undresses.

As John Donne wrote some 400 years ago, I paraphrase: “O my America! My new-found-land/My kingdom,/safest when with one man manned,/My mine of precious stones, my empire, /How blest I am in thus discovering thee!/ . . . Full nakedness! All joys are due to thee . . .”

By: Val Russell

Val Russell — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 12:39:04 +0000

In reply to Ashton. Interesting point as my Gran died two days ago (Sunday 23rd Feb) and she had been on end of life care for a while but our sexual frequency has vastly upper the past couple of days, Saturday night, Sunday morning, mornings never hardly happen because my husband is usually asleep! Sunday night and Monday night!

By: Terry

Terry — Sat, 22 Feb 2020 00:50:56 +0000

In reply to Terry. That was supposed to be a reply to Anonymous...

By: Terry

Terry — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 21:36:33 +0000

As a woman I don’t see this as a male weakness but simply part of how the male, “waffle” brain works (as opposed to female “sphaghetti”). My husband has told me on several occasions that our time in bed helped him to get his mind off the stresses at work and get to sleep. I wonder how your wife would react to being told that her need for a sympathetic ear, or chocolate, or exercise, or whatever…to reduce her anxieties was a “weakness”!

By: J

Fri, 21 Feb 2020 20:24:52 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. This breaks my heart. Would she hear the message better from a woman? Like me?