Comments on: Why I Took My Breast Implants Out

By: J

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 15:35:15 +0000

In reply to Barb. Praying for full recovery and fresh health! I definitely feel so much better, and even discovered a couple of weeks ago that I no longer have a rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis. My symptoms of that are gone, and the bloodwork came back normal. I have a couple of lingering issues, but nothing huge. And how lovely to hear that your husband has supported you throughout! I have heard many such stories at this point, and I appreciate knowing how many husbands just see their wives as beautiful, whatever size their boobs are, and want the best for their beloved. Blessings!

By: Barb

Barb — Sat, 30 Oct 2021 22:25:39 +0000

God Bless You For This Post!
I recently had breast augmentation and your story resonates with me. I felt like I was still in middle school watching everyone get theirs and after 35 years, two kids, menopause still nothing…lol. I gained weight that seemed it would never come off during my menopause. The journey also included: memory fog, exhaustion, joint pain and the like. Once I reached what I considered the other side, I felt much better. My energy returned and I started a fitness journey resulting in a weight loss of 40+ lbs. I also dropped down to 20% body fat. This unfortunately left my chest looking like a flat tire. I agonized over this for months, did not feel good about intimacy with my husband and like you, had a difficult time wearing any top without major padding. My husband and I are both Christian, so it was not a decision I took lightly. Also he loved me the way I was. On my birthday last year we traveled to a family wedding. While in the hotel he took my hands and said, “I think you should do it”. I replied, “do what?” He then told me he was on board with the surgery. I still gave it more thought, because I really wanted him to be ok with it and not grossed out…lol. I discussed with my primary doctor, completed a full panel health exam, prayed and sought Gods counsel. I researched for over a year and had numerous consults. It is still early for me only a week after surgery and I love my results. I will watch for some of the symptoms you pointed out and appreciate you sharing your story. Like other women here I am torn some days with Gods creation perspective vs. the advances he makes available for us to improve our health and appearance. My husband assures me he is not grossed out, so I am praising God that it was virtually painless, only needed Tylenol. I am also thankful I have a battery of Christian women who supported me and prayed for me. I think it is a big decision that requires a relationship with God and a solid support system.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 06 Oct 2021 09:43:16 +0000

In reply to J. I agree with Some Guy. I came here (just discovered your site) because of the breast augmentation discussion you have here, and I wanted to read your processing of it, as that's where I am right now. Just had an appointment with a plastic surgeon today! Thank you for your blog; it looks interesting.

By: Katie

Katie — Wed, 28 Jul 2021 11:12:01 +0000

When my husband was traveling for work, he would wind up in some beautiful towns and cities and in his spare time go exploring and look for things for me. In one upscale town he found a charming lingerie shop that sold high end lingerie. The cheap pantyhose they sold was $25 a pair! Well, the town was only a few hours away from our home, so he asked me to come down for a visit and he took me to the shop. The lady who owned and operated the shop was an absolutely stunning woman of color who carried her slim, willow frame with grace and poise. And she was flat as a pancake! Like seriously. She wore a skin tight top and not a hint of breast tissue bulged from her chest. I couldn’t tell you if she was naturally flat or had a double mastectomy, but there it was. No breasts at all. And running a lingerie shop to boot! And looking stunning.

I thought of how difficult it must be for her to find clothing since women’s clothing are designed around a b or c cup. But, she seemed to have found her style.

By: J

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 22:42:29 +0000

In reply to Mark.

Good questions! No, it did not cure my sleep apnea, but it was never intended to. If anything, the ENT said it could make my CPAP therapy more effective; however, I haven’t been using the CPAP because I find the nasal pillow I’ve found to be uncomfortable and irritating since surgery. I’m working on resolving that. My nose definitely feels sensitive; in fact, I’ve been more aware of my nose discomfort, swelling, and odd tingles since the implant surgery, because now I feel well enough to notice localized sensations. I’m seeing the ENT later this week and asking about it. (I think she might give me another steroid shot.) It’s weird, but I can’t yet say whether the nose surgery was a success. She did several things, and from what I read, it takes a loooooong time to recover—perhaps because your nose/mouth area are so sensitive. I think it will be good, but I’m still on hold a bit. If your wife wants to shoot me an email and ask anything else, you can find me at j@hotholyhumorous[dot]com.

By: Mark

Mark — Mon, 19 Jul 2021 20:42:16 +0000

J,
I pray for continued healing and commend you for taking well thought out precautionary steps to be as healthy as you can.

We are kind of curious about your nose surgery. Did it cure your sleep apnea? Does your nose feel discomforted or sensitive? My wife has considered it but both of us are concerned about the possible negative outcome if such a surgery like that goes wrong.

By: Christian

Christian — Mon, 12 Jul 2021 04:35:42 +0000

YAY!! So glad you’re recovering, J! Praying you stay on a good, healing path.

By: Ngina Otiende

Ngina Otiende — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 02:35:50 +0000

Thank you for sharing so candidly, J. I am so so sorry for the health issues you've had. But so glad you're doing better now. I've had a bazillion health issues starting about 4 years ago, seemingly out of the blues. The brain fog was the worst so I know how it feels to have some relief. Your post has encouraged me to keep advocating for myself, pressing on and finding answers! (because sometimes it gets tiring ) Thank you

By: Keelie Reason

Keelie Reason — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 02:17:09 +0000

I’m so happy you’re feeling better! I know you’ve had a long way to go to get here and I’ll pray for your recovery.

By: Terry

Terry — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 18:36:28 +0000

Thank you for acknowledging our need to feel comfortable/normal in our own skin. In my case I grow weary of all the “Christian” (ahem) hooey on being content with our bodies in regard to weight loss, remembering that we’re beautiful in God’s (and our husbands’) eyes, not being concerned with what others think, blah blah blah…as if what we ourselves think and feel in our own bodies doesn’t count. But the first two reasons (at least) that you listed for why you decided to get breast implants also resonate with me (albeit from a different perspective):
– Feeling like a woman: with a waistline and without WWF-scale shoulders.
– Fitting into clothes: being able to button my pants (and blouses) and not look/feel like a belted pillow.
And I must admit a certain degree of judgment I might have applied toward the idea of a woman having her breasts augmented, as in my estimation it would have been based largely in vanity. But the explanation you describe here (and previously) for doing things for/to ourselves, again for the sake of how we feel in our own skin (even if in your case you had the procedure reversed), is validating to me and likely many women who might feel judged for not taking the “Christian” approach of acceptance and resignation in regard to our physical appearances.