Comments on: 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover Unsatisfied

By: J

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 00:06:01 +0000

Oh, how frustrating. By the way, my podcast partner, Chris Taylor, has fibromyalgia. She and her website might be a good resource: https://honeycombspice.com/

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 04 Feb 2023 18:33:59 +0000

In reply to J. In all seriousness, my wife has been diagnosed with fibromyalgia which causes her chronic pain and has pretty much shut down our sex life. Praying that will change someday

By: J

Sat, 04 Feb 2023 18:08:59 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. I'm sorry. That's sad.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 19:35:16 +0000

J, Since we're going with the music theme, my current sex life would best be described as "Can't Get No Satisfaction"

By: Tom

Tom — Thu, 26 Jan 2023 01:15:25 +0000

In reply to Chris.

“Finally, trying something new is great, but how much can be new after more than 30 years of marriage?”

As someone 17 years into marriage, there’s still a *lot* my wife is reluctant to try – even fairly “vanilla” things – so I stopped asking/suggesting.

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 19:48:22 +0000

That is a long list. Lingerie makes a huge impact, and I have been blessed that my wife will indulge me. Not “Federick’s of Hollywood” type, but pretty and sexy baby doll types. I think she really loves how I light up when I see her wearing lingerie and makes her feel even prettier.

Porn shouldn’t even need to be part of the discussion, but sadly it has permeated even the Christian community. I can’t imagine how devastating it would be to my wife if I asked her to join in this. It would basically be telling her that she is not enough.

Finally, trying something new is great, but how much can be new after more than 30 years of marriage? I am not talking about things that are clearly a violation of scripture, there are some things are off limits because one or both of us are uncomfortable with the options. I won’t push my wife into trying something she is really uncomfortable doing as I don’t believe that shows her love or respect.

By: Once In a Lifetime

Once In a Lifetime — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 19:39:36 +0000

Oh my goodness…number one….yikes. Back during the “pandemic” my company let us all work from home, then slowly brought us back to the office. I went to lunch with a couple of co-workers (guys) and got caught up on things, just general chat. One of them goes, “Man I have to get used to taking a shower every other day. There were days I could smell myself.” The other one goes, “Oh yeah me too!” They thought it was funny. I was repulsed. I thought to myself, “Wait. So first off you go to bed dirty which is gross. And second off you don’t shower/bathe for multiple days on end? So you’d rather be at your best for work but not to sleep with your wife? Either your wife is oblivious or just doesn’t care and you are just plain disgusting.” Ugh!