Comments on: 10 Things She Can Do to Help Sex Go Well

By: PQ

PQ — Thu, 21 Dec 2023 21:13:56 +0000

In reply to Anonymous. Well, she's a lucky woman. My husband gets impatient and bored, so that just kills it. He doesn't realize that it's his attitude that makes me unable to respond. He tries for a bit then gets tired and uninterested. Not all husbands are happy to spend time trying to figure it out.

By: Brian

Brian — Thu, 21 Dec 2023 07:44:32 +0000

I love giving my wife oral pleasure, but she is self conscious because of her extra body weight. That said on those rare occasions she lets me “go down on her”, she has incredible orgasms. However, we often climax together during PIV as I have learned the right angle to give her maximum stimulation. All of this to say that I really enjoy seeing my wife of 33.5 years satisfied, regardless of the manner of stimulation. And I should add that our sex life is better now than it has ever been.

By: Felicity

Felicity — Thu, 12 Oct 2023 14:51:45 +0000

PIV never does anything for me, never has even though I’ve tried to make it work for me. Other things work, so PIV is for him.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 27 Sep 2023 21:26:13 +0000

In reply to Chris.

I agree, I wish more wives knew how much their husbands take pleasure in pleasuring them, exploring their bodies, etc…I wish my wife would let me please her more often with oral sex, manual stimulation, etc…good husbands take pleasure in making their wives feel pleasure! (I call it pink therapy).PS, We’re in our 50s as well.

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 27 Sep 2023 01:52:42 +0000

I think I must add a bit here. My wife told me today that she hates getting older when it comes to sexual intimacy. At first I thought it was about her body, which drives me as crazy as when we were first married. It turns out she has issues with how her body responds. She isn’t thrilled that we often need extra lubrication (we are in our 50s). She far more able to enjoy herself with Astroglide. She says it bothers her to take longer to get there, though I love that I get to be with her for a longer time, as I mentioned in my reply to Anonymous. It turns out that while she gets all the foreplay she wants, she gets self conscious about receiving so much attention, even though it makes me all the more satisfied. Making her satisfied always makes me satisfied,whether it was everything I wanted or not. Yes, there are times I want something special and don’t get it, nothing crazy though. I don’t need much, just time with my bride. That is enough. What I have not necessarily been able to do is to convince her to prioritize her enjoyment over mine. I am easily satisfied and even more so when I know she has everything she wants. Sometimes that is just to make me feel close to her and to be sexually fulfilled and sometimes, most times, to climax while in my arms. I don’t know if this will help wives that read your blog, but I would like to hope it does.

By: Chris

Chris — Sat, 23 Sep 2023 23:09:28 +0000

I agree, being so close is incredibly intimate. My wife is not always comfortable, but those times does bring a certain connection that is incredibly intense, not to mention how it makes the physical incredibly intense for both of us. I will do anything that makes my wife feel valued and sexy and if that takes more time it is just a bonus. It is more time with her naked in bed. Sometimes I wish it would take longer.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 15:06:17 +0000

Great post J. As for foreplay ideas to get her wet, the husband could try giving her a nice vulva massage, taking time to softly caress her inner and outer lips to please her or even offer her oral sex in a face sitting position. This should really get her juices flowing (speaking from personal experience here). I also think the husband having close contact with her juices creates more intimacy in the marriage bed. Just my two cents.