Comments on: 3 More Principles Christians Should Affirm About Sex https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/ God's Design for Marital Intimacy Tue, 26 Mar 2024 12:55:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: Chris B https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-108527 Tue, 26 Mar 2024 12:55:58 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-108527 In reply to J.

Thanks for the prayers. God is able.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-108524 Tue, 26 Mar 2024 03:32:11 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-108524 In reply to Chris B.

As often happens, I wish the person I could talk to was the spouse not currently reading my blog. Praying for you!

]]> By: Chris B https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-108519 Mon, 25 Mar 2024 16:14:40 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-108519 I agree with all 7 points. I am on aboard with regular lovemaking. Sadly my wife is not. No abuse or pain. Just not interested. It is hard to remain patient. I know we are missing out. She says she wants to have a good sex life but makes little to no effort. I am so tired of being turned down that I rarely try. It is not worth the emotional pain. When I do try I already think the answer is going to be no, I’m just giving her another opportunity to turn me down. I believe that I am in self-preservation mode. Cannot be hurt or disappointed if I have zero expectations. Even after months of talking and open communication still no effort. I hear the same reasons, which just sound like lip service. I understand that everyone is wired different and most have different libidos. I cannot imagine telling my wife that I do not want to have meaning conversation today or tomorrow and probably not for another 2 or 3 wks. But I really want to talk and enjoy doing so……just not today or tomorrow……….I do not get upset but I do tell her that I am disappointed and explain why. I do not understand what happens on the inside but I know that something changes. I cannot help but be bummed.

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-107977 Thu, 29 Feb 2024 17:40:21 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-107977 In reply to Trey Morgan.

Thank you so much!

]]> By: J https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-107975 Thu, 29 Feb 2024 17:32:55 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-107975 In reply to Anonymous.

Not tired of the comments at all! Thanks, Anon. 🙂

]]> By: Anonymous https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-107950 Wed, 28 Feb 2024 18:45:58 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-107950 ]]> Good article! (By the way I hope you’re not tired of all my comments recently but you’ve written some really good stuff lately). I like what you said about praying for your spouse. Even though our sex life has been greatly on the wane lately (menopause), I am still praying that we can get back to where we used to be and that I can love her more unconditionally and cultivate more patience as a husband. 🙏

]]> By: Trey Morgan https://hotholyhumorous.com/2024/02/26/3-more-principles-affirm-about-sex/#comment-107936 Tue, 27 Feb 2024 12:46:17 +0000 https://hotholyhumorous.com/?p=48991#comment-107936 Excellent work on this series. So good. Thank you.

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