How sweet of you to say. Honestly, I regularly feel like I’m not glorifying God as much as I should. But I want to. I truly want to.

I didn’t put anal play on the list, because it is a controversial idea. I’m actually opposed to anal penetration (see Is Anal Sex Okay?), but less so to “anal play,” as you say. I think it’s reasonable to ask but not insist.

I don’t think Mrs. A would appreciate specific character roleplay either lol it might be upsetting. Would anal play be too much to put on a bucket list? I wouldn’t want to pressure her by putting it on a list

No worries. You and I have long been in agreement on everything that matters. I think your response clarifies your thoughts. I tend to be very particular, as the world has lost its collective mind. I really appreciate you. You are one of the few that not only want to bring relationships together but also want to do so in a way that glorifies God.

Now I’m wondering if I should re-word that item! I did make sure to say role play a “scenario,” not different people. But maybe it isn’t clear enough? 🤔

I appreciate the clarification, a lot. I was surprised to see it on your list and your explanation is great. Thank you!

Thanks for giving me the chance to clarify! The version of Role Play I think is okay different scenarios NOT different people. That is, something like: what if we were a married couple from the Middle Ages and you, hubby, were the knight visiting her, the princess, on your brief leave home? NOT specific people you’ve seen in fiction or real life. It’s a bit of pretend but still being yourselves.