10 Things She Can Do to Help Sex Go Well
What can a wife do during sex to help things go smoothly and receive the pleasure and intimacy she desires? Here are 10 tips!
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Marriage: I’d Say It Differently Now
Harsh words, whether malicious or careless, can hurt our spouse. How can use our words instead to nurture our mate and marriage?
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Flip the Switch from Initiation to Availability
Are you the higher drive spouse? Instead of initiating sex, how about making yourself available? YOu might feel greater peace and even get more yeses.
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Why She Needs Him to Shower
Today’s post is for the gentlemen. Listen up, guys: You’d be surprised how often I hear from a wife saying that she’s struggling with kissing or having sex or even finding her husband attractive because he doesn’t smell good. And you might be one of those husbands who isn’t making his wife’s nose happy. Without realizing it.
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Q&A with J: Engaging Your Mind in Lovemaking
A while ago, I talked about having over 300 emails in my inbox. Through various efforts, I’m now down to 69 messages. (And yes, I do see the humor in that.) Slowly but surely, I’m trying to get to the remaining questions either directly or through posts. And today’s question is from (gasp!) May 2017.
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Forget What You Look Like While Making Love
I no longer care what I look like when my husband and I make love. Let me clarify. I do care about being clean, shaving my legs, wearing something sexy, etc. But I used to be so self-conscious about the expressions my face made or how my body might appear to him in certain sexual
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A Prayer for Higher-Drive Wives
Those of you who read my blog often know that I have a tender spot for higher-drive wives. They aren’t the majority of wives, but rather represent 15-30% of marriages. However, that’s still millions of women! And unfortunately, a lot of marriage resources presume a higher-drive husband and a lower-drive wife, leaving couples that don’t
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Want to Work All Your Muscles? Try Sex.
I was listening to Wait Wait … Don’t Tell Me!, the NPR news quiz game show, and they mentioned an odd study about sex. Of course, I had to go look it up. So here’s what happened:Â Upbeat Active (a fitness company) commissioned research tracking how many muscles are used for various activities. They learned that
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You’re Not Kissing Enough
Not too long ago, I had an interesting conversation with a few other wives. The topic of discussion was What Happened to Kissing?! The general consensus was that once men got married and knew that kissing could lead to really good stuff (yay, sex!), they seemed to want to skip smooching and aim for their real
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What Wives Are Missing in Marital Intimacy
What are wives missing in their physical intimacy? That is, what do they wish they had a lot more of with their husbands? I had a surprising conversation this past weekend with some married women about this very topic. These wives are relatively happy with the sexual intimacy in their marriages, but we all agreed that
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