How the Sexually Disinterested Spouse Feels
J shares 45 emotions of sexually disinterested spouses and addresses how to begin closing the sexual desire gap in your marriage.
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Q&A with J: Should A Higher Drive Spouse Lower Their Expectations?
J answers a lower drive husband’s question on how to negotiate sex drive differences in their marriage. Who gets to decide?
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Where Did Your Sexual Interest Go?
7 reasons why you may not be as interested in sex as you’d like and what you can do to increase your desire.
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A Letter to the Low Drive Husband
I’m not sure how many low-drive husbands read my blog, but I know quite a few high-drive wives read it. Sometimes they comment or email me about the issues in their marriage, and I personally lament how few resources there are for couples in this scenario. Today it’s on my heart to write not to
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Should You Track the Frequency of Sex in Your Marriage?
How often do you have sex? It’s a question some spouses can easily answer, and some not so easily. If you read my short story, “After the Baby,” in Behind Closed Doors: Five Marriage Stories, the main character is a husband who knows exactly how long it’s been since he and his wife made love. Because
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