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Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by J

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 02:23:36 +0000

I suspect that second sentence isn’t entirely true … or you wouldn’t be reading this blog. I’m sorry it’s been so tough, though.

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by J

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 02:22:40 +0000

In reply to Jenny. I laughed out loud at this! As an 80s girl myself, I totally relate.

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 13 Oct 2026 20:08:40 +0000

In our house turning on the 80s station is foreplay. It’s as if by hearing those songs my husband becomes the teenage boy he was in that decade who gets as hard as a rock at the sight of my midriff but is too shy to make eye contact for fear I might catch him looking. The next step is I hold his hand and guide it toward a place that will get my lady hormones going while keeping out of sight of the kids. “I Think We’re Alone Now” means from the children instead of the parents.

How did we ever get so old?

Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by Clifford Wharton

Clifford Wharton — Sat, 10 Oct 2026 13:10:37 +0000

In reply to J. agreed, but our experience over 40+ years has been that talking about the 'elephant' causes more trouble than it is worth. Really I wish God had never invented sex.

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by J

Tue, 06 Oct 2026 01:35:35 +0000

In reply to Terry. I kinda love this story.

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by Terry

Terry — Mon, 05 Oct 2026 13:17:56 +0000

I can relate to your story as the idea of marriage was up in the air for a long time for me as well. I knew marriage meant putting a husband and kids ahead of a career, and I so wanted to be able to travel, see the world, make an impact. After my first year in college I went on a mission trip with a couple who would be my future in-laws, as their son who was 3 years older than I had grown up in the same youth group but we hadn’t run in the same circles. He was also on the team and we began dating a few months later – just as friends, mind you! – and over the next 5 1/2 years God wore down my objections to getting married. Working with untrustworthy people who have less than my best interest in mind can’t compare to waking up every day next to someone who always has my back. He’s still the more romantic one by comparison, and I have to make a point of showing affection and letting him know I appreciate him, but even after 26 years I have no regrets.

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by Sensuali Poetic

Sensuali Poetic — Sun, 04 Oct 2026 03:59:14 +0000

I like the term outercourse instead of foreplay, as its own way of enjoying intimacy instead of being a means to an end. Of course, if the end goal is reproduction (which it doesn’t seem to be anymore) then foreplay makes sense as a term to use.

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by J

Sat, 03 Oct 2026 23:08:17 +0000

In reply to Mohsin Ali. Thanks!

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by Mohsin Ali

Mohsin Ali — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 22:11:10 +0000

What a beautiful poem, and such an honest journey from independence to letting yourself want romance. I think a lot of couples could relate to that shift — realizing that wanting small tender gestures isn’t weakness but part of loving well. Thank you for sharing something so personal; it genuinely made me reflect on my own marriage.

Comment on We All Have Sexual Baggage by Magiz

Magiz — Mon, 21 Sep 2026 23:34:40 +0000

Thanks for being so candid about the premarital chapter — the framing about what it means “for your marriage” is what makes this useful rather than just confessional. The “long in the making” tone really comes through, and I think a lot of couples will recognize patterns from their own stories.