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Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by J

Mon, 02 Nov 2026 21:15:50 +0000

In reply to Joe. Good points! Thanks for commenting, Joe.

Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by Joe

Joe — Mon, 02 Nov 2026 15:11:03 +0000

It’s really important that wives understand that a man’s mind can get in the way too. While the sight of a naked or partially dressed wifey is enough to fire up all systems, it’s just not that simple. Love making is very much about acceptance and giving. If it feels like the wife is not really interested and has only said yes out of obligation or to get it over with, it can be difficult to maintain arousal. While the lack of completion is frustrating, more so is the feeling of not really being wanted.

Another health issue for men is vascular, where they cannot reach or maintain erectness. While still capable of climaxing, doing so in a soft state is extremely unsatisfying and disheartening.

Comment on 6 Reasons Why Sex Isn’t Happening in Your Marriage (and How to Address Them) by J

Wed, 21 Oct 2026 02:10:09 +0000

In reply to Terry. Oh, my heart hurts just reading your comment. I would suggest just taking on these issues one at a time, without pressure or guilt, but just pursuing greater intimacy as best you can. And the sex life you may eventually pull together doesn't have to look like something specific. It's whatever works for the two of you. Praying for answers!

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 20 Oct 2026 02:00:54 +0000

In reply to Jenny. Loved your comment! I think it's very sexy when a wife guides her husband's hand to the place that pleases her (and keeps the juices flowing lol). Reminds me of my younger years before PIV was an option and had to rely on manual stimulation. I'm also an 80s kid and would recommend Sade as some good sex music. She has a very soothing voice.

Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by J

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 02:23:36 +0000

In reply to Clifford Wharton.

I suspect that second sentence isn’t entirely true … or you wouldn’t be reading this blog. I’m sorry it’s been so tough, though.

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by J

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 02:22:40 +0000

In reply to Jenny. I laughed out loud at this! As an 80s girl myself, I totally relate.

Comment on 3 Cheers for Foreplay! by Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 13 Oct 2026 20:08:40 +0000

In our house turning on the 80s station is foreplay. It’s as if by hearing those songs my husband becomes the teenage boy he was in that decade who gets as hard as a rock at the sight of my midriff but is too shy to make eye contact for fear I might catch him looking. The next step is I hold his hand and guide it toward a place that will get my lady hormones going while keeping out of sight of the kids. “I Think We’re Alone Now” means from the children instead of the parents.

How did we ever get so old?

Comment on Let’s Talk About Husbands’ Orgasms by Clifford Wharton

Clifford Wharton — Sat, 10 Oct 2026 13:10:37 +0000

In reply to J. agreed, but our experience over 40+ years has been that talking about the 'elephant' causes more trouble than it is worth. Really I wish God had never invented sex.

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by J

Tue, 06 Oct 2026 01:35:35 +0000

In reply to Terry. I kinda love this story.

Comment on How Nice a Little Romance Could Be by Terry

Terry — Mon, 05 Oct 2026 13:17:56 +0000

I can relate to your story as the idea of marriage was up in the air for a long time for me as well. I knew marriage meant putting a husband and kids ahead of a career, and I so wanted to be able to travel, see the world, make an impact. After my first year in college I went on a mission trip with a couple who would be my future in-laws, as their son who was 3 years older than I had grown up in the same youth group but we hadn’t run in the same circles. He was also on the team and we began dating a few months later – just as friends, mind you! – and over the next 5 1/2 years God wore down my objections to getting married. Working with untrustworthy people who have less than my best interest in mind can’t compare to waking up every day next to someone who always has my back. He’s still the more romantic one by comparison, and I have to make a point of showing affection and letting him know I appreciate him, but even after 26 years I have no regrets.