Topics for Wives

5 Steps to Improving Intimacy in Your Marriage covers five foundational steps for making your marriage bed the blessing God intended it to be. From biblical perspectives to practical tips, this session will give specific ideas for improving sexual intimacy that wives can tailor to their own marriage.

Embracing God’s Gift of Sex walks wives through personal issues from our pasts, myths about sexuality we’ve believed, and lies about ourselves that hinder us from embracing God’s gift of sex in our marriages. Then we replace these falsehoods with biblical truth and hope.

Becoming a Savvy Lover in Your Marriage addresses the nitty-gritty that attracts many to J’s blog, Hot, Holy & Humorous. We’ll look at specific lovemaking tips to get more excited about sex with your husband, to feel more confident in the marriage bed, and to spice up your existing sexual intimacy. (This presentation is straightforward, but not unnecessarily graphic. If you have any concerns about content, please request more information.) 

Topics for Couples

Five-Star Sex: Making Your Marriage Sizzle and Satisfy is a lively, engaging presentation of five key components for healthy, hot, and holy lovemaking in marriage. In addition, J provides her Top Ten Sex Tips for couples, based on research, study, and hearing from numerous couples through the years. This one’s a crowd-pleaser that sends couples out with great ideas to put into practice.

Becoming Passionate about Passion is a shorter presentation (30 minutes) introducing the topic of godly sexuality in marriage to church couples. We’ll cover three important truths that help us begin to rethink our view of sex and recognize its beauty and benefits, as created by God our Father.

Note that J does not preach or present at worship services, but rather focuses on marriage or women’s events.


We contacted J last year to speak on sex at our marriage conference as a keynote speaker. At the time, we were unsure how many people would be in attendance. When we asked J what size of a group she speaks for, she responded, “Like I always say, size doesn’t matter.” We knew right then that we were in for a real treat.

J is not only polished and comfortable on the stage, she is a true professional and gracious off the stage as well. She has a gift at taking an otherwise uncomfortable or embarrassing subject and presenting it in such a way that feels normal and important. She’s also witty and funny and had our 550+ attendees laughing. Her content is appropriate for Christian audiences. She has a talent for teaching concepts that are easy to relate to. Those in attendance thought so too; of all the speakers at the conference, she was rated the highest.

Dan Purcell, Get Your Marriage On

Cost to Your Group

J will speak at your women’s or couples’ event in the U.S. or Canada provided the following:

  • Speaking Fee (starting at $250 and up)
  • Transportation (airfare or mileage per federal rates)
  • Private lodging (hotel, AirBnB, etc.)
  • Meals (provided at the event and/or standard per diem rates)
  • A book table and volunteer for book sales before and after the event and/or a book purchased for each attendee

Subject to her calendar availability.

Download Flyer / Speaker Sheet HERE.


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J. Parker has been married for 26 years, has two teenage sons, and lives in Friendswood, Texas — a bedroom community between Houston and Galveston. She hold a bachelor’s degree in history and a master’s degree in counseling, with previous experience in children’s ministry.

She began blogging about marriage and sexual intimacy in 2010 and has authored four books: Hot, Holy & Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s DesignIntimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in Marriage, Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples, and Behind Closed Doors: Five Marriage Stories.

Her mission to encourage Sex & Marriage by God’s Design was inspired by her personal journey and God’s beautiful nudging. J. Parker is represented by Greg Johnson of WordServe Literary.

To request more information or invite J to speak at your event, click HERE for the contact form or email J at hotholyhumorous [at] gmail [dot] com.