J will speak at your women’s event in the U.S. or Canada provided the following:

  • Transportation (airfare or mileage per federal rates)
  • Private lodging (hotel, AirBnB, etc.)
  • Meals (provided at the event and/or standard per diem rates)
  • A book table and volunteer for book sales before and after the event and/or a book purchased for each attendee

Subject to her calendar availability.

Download Flyer / Speaker Sheet HERE.


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J. Parker has been married for 25 years, has two teenage sons, and lives in Friendswood, Texas — a bedroom community between Houston and Galveston. She hold a bachelor’s degree in history and a master’s degree in counseling, with previous experience in children’s ministry.

She began blogging about marriage and sexual intimacy in 2010 and has authored three books: Hot, Holy & Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s DesignIntimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in Marriage, and Behind Closed Doors: Five Marriage Stories.

Her mission to encourage Sex & Marriage by God’s Design was inspired by her personal journey and God’s beautiful nudging. J. Parker is represented by Greg Johnson of WordServe Literary.

She presents candid Christian talks for wives on sexual intimacy in marriage.


5 Steps graphic5 Steps to Improving Intimacy in Your Marriage covers five foundational steps for making your marriage bed the blessing God intended it to be. From biblical perspectives to practical tips, this session will give specific ideas for improving sexual intimacy that wives can tailor to their own marriage.

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Embracing God’s Gift of Sex
walks wives through personal issues from our pasts, myths about sexuality we’ve believed, and lies about ourselves that hinder us from embracing God’s gift of sex in our marriages. Then we replace these falsehoods with biblical truth and hope.


Savvy Lover graphicBecoming a Savvy Lover in Your Marriage addresses the nitty-gritty that attracts many to J’s blog, Hot, Holy & Humorous. We’ll look at specific lovemaking tips to get more excited about sex with your husband, to feel more confident in the marriage bed, and to spice up your existing sexual intimacy.
(This presentation is straightforward, but not unnecessarily graphic. If you have any concerns about content, please request more information.) 

To request more information or invite J to speak at your event, click HERE for the contact form or email J at hotholyhumorous [at] gmail [dot] com.