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Are you struggling to embrace your God-given sexuality, unsure how to get your spouse on board or looking for sex tips that align with godliness?
Making It Hot.
Keeping It Holy.
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Hi there, I'm J. Parker
I started Hot, Holy & Humorous as a blog in 2009 with the goal of helping others understand God’s design for sex in marriage and embrace God’s blessings for your marriage bed.
- Bestselling Christian sex author
- Wife, married for over 30 years
- Master's degree in counseling
- Over 250 podcast episodes
- 1000+ blog posts
- 5 books on sex in marriage
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What if foreplay isn’t the precedent or the lead-up but the sweetest part of sexual intimacy in marriage? Or at least an equally good part?
A story long in the making, I share more about my promiscuous premarital past, why it happened, and what it means for you and your marriage.
Are there things you once said you didn't care about in your marriage, but now you do? J shares a shift she made, along with a poem about it!
You demystified every aspect of this new sexual discovery
You demystified and comforted me about every aspect of this new sexual discovery….I have never read anything in a Christian viewpoint about sex that was so transparent.
You have literally saved my marriage!
You have literally saved my marriage because you were open to the calling the Lord has on your life. I can’t tell you how thankful I am for that.
Without this site, many wouldn`t know what truly is available in the marriage bed
I’m so thankful for you and this site. Without it, many would not know what truly is available in the marriage bed (…or the marriage couch…or the marriage dining room table…)
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