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Q&A with J: Engaging Your Mind in Lovemaking

March 15, 2018 March 14, 2018 / How To Tips, Q & A with J / 15 Comments

A while ago, I talked about having over 300 emails in my inbox. Through various efforts, I’m now down to 69 messages. (And yes, I do see the humor in that.) Slowly but surely, I’m trying to get to the remaining questions either directly or through posts. And today’s question is from (gasp!) May 2017. …

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What Are You Thinking During Sex?

March 17, 2016 September 2, 2017 / Sexual Intimacy Encouragement / 40 Comments

I am a recovering perfectionist. I hate getting things wrong, but I’ve learned through the years quite a bit about my fallibility and my need for humility. Thus, it should be no surprise that I might have messed up with Monday’s post, Q&A with J: “He’s Going Into His ‘Spank Bank.’ “ The querying wife explained that …

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