Month: May 2014

What’s the Foundation for Your Views on Sex?

I’ve been giving this question a lot of thought lately — what people use as their foundation on views about sex. Plenty of Christians proclaim a strong belief, read the Word of God, and try to live godly lives. However, when it comes to the bedroom, we may be tempted to base our beliefs on traditional …

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3 G-Words to Improve Your Marriage

I was recently chatting with a fellow marriage blogger, the marvelous Sheila Gregoire, and talking about my own marriage story — how my relationship went from terrible to terrific. I’ve written before about what made the difference in my own marriage. The summary version is I stopped merely seeking changes from my husband and praying for …

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Still Nervous about Giving Him Oral? Yeah, I Get It.

“You want me to put my mouth where?!!” That’s the gut response of many wives when they first contemplate giving oral sex. It seems natural to match up genitalia, but when it comes to your mouth, that’s a whole different story. Sure, you love his manhood and all, but you wonder: Is that allowed? Is it healthy? Is …

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3 Things You CAN Learn from Love Scenes

There’s a danger in turning to movies and novels as examples of how romance and sex work in the marital bedroom. I’ve written about the myths of romance novels and the problems of films in how they depict this intimate act. However, I’m a fiction reader mostly. While there are plenty of great nonfiction titles …

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