Welcome (back) to Q&A with J. Let’s look at today’s reader question: My husband gets erections when he sees other women. Is this normal? It’s messing with my self esteem in ways I can’t describe. When I first got this question, my instinctive reaction was yeah, that’s normal — certainly for younger guys. But as […]
Q&A with J: “He Gets Erections When He Sees Other Women” Read More »
First off, let me clear up what introvert means. Introverts draw energy internally, while extroverts get charged up externally. This doesn’t mean that introverts don’t enjoy people or that they’re shy; rather, the experience of being with a lot of people or with people for long periods of time drains their energy. They need to go
An Introvert’s Guide to Having Energy for Sex Read More »
Today’s reader question is a short one, with a longer answer. I had (what I hope is) a quick question. I’ve read that for men, arousal tends to follow desire, whereas for women, desire tends to follow arousal. Do we have any thoughts on why God created things this way, assuming it was not by
Q&A with J: Why Did God Make Sex So Hard Sometimes? Read More »
I’ve been reading about porn lately, not because that’s my favorite subject, but because I saw two excellent articles about the problems with porn — from secular sources. Time Magazine’s April 11, 2016 edition had a feature article on Porn: Why young men who grew up with Internet porn are becoming advocates for turning it
It’s True: Porn Can Kill Your Sex Life Read More »
My Q&A with J feature has moved to Thursdays, giving me more time in the week to contemplate my response and answer. Today’s reader question is about one of our favorite topics (right, ladies?): orgasm. We’ve been married for only 18 wonderful months, and have enjoyed the journey so far! But, I just can’t seem to
Q&A with J: “I Just Can’t Seem to Orgasm” Read More »
