With today’s question, I’m leaving a lot out, because the wife’s explanation of her heartbreaking circumstances was over 1000 words. But to give you an overall picture, below are her words in italics and my summaries in between. From the very start, sex was painful for me, but not in the usual way I suppose. I […]
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Today’s question is about a specific, controversial bedroom practice: …what I can’t handle is his desire for bondage sex – whether he’s strapped to the bed or strung up from a hook. He feels it’s when he’s most vulnerable and sees it as completely giving himself to me. I see it as demeaning and I
Q&A with J: How about Bondage in the Bedroom? Read More »
The question today is fairly general, with a reader asking me to tackle arguments and confrontation. Since plenty of disagreements in marriage center around sexual intimacy, this seems like a good question. Maybe you could address the question about how to handle arguments. I know for us, they would become quite confrontational. She’d stand there
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Here’s today’s question from a Hot, Holy & Humorous reader, served up short and sweet: Do you (can you) make love during that time of the month? And if yes, how do you handle it? Do I? No. But, to be fair, I had horrible periods for years, and now I don’t. So my time of
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Let’s tackle a tough one today: What do you do about that woman who won’t stop touching your husband? Especially if he’s had a history with her… My husband has had some past transgressions (sex with other women while he and I were dating) and viewing porn online, attending strip clubs, and flirting, inappropriate touching, and
Q&A with J: “Get Your Filthy Little Mitts Off My Husband” Read More »
