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Are Breast Implants Bad for You?

In December 2010, I got breast implants. In January 2021, I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. Sadly, I now believe these two events are related.

I have spoken openly about my choice to get plastic surgery and advised others to consider their reasons, do their research, and forge ahead with what they believe is best for them. Now, in addition to feeling personally bad myself, I am horrified by the idea that I might have encouraged someone out there to undergo a procedure that caused unnecessary illness.

Today, I need the correct the record based on what I’ve recently learned.

Why would someone get implants?

Women get breast implants for varied reasons, including:

  • Unusually flat chest
  • Unevenly sized breasts
  • Extreme sagging
  • Misshapen breasts
  • Reconstruction after mastectomy

Yes, some women with perfectly fine breasts just go bigger, but it’s not as high a percentage as many believe. Most of the women I know who got implants had other reasons too.

What were my reasons for getting implants? Well, I was in the unusually flat chest department. Here’s why I did it:

  • Feeling like a woman. When I was 39, my breasts looked 13. The rest of me was a woman, and I simply wanted my chest to display who I was internally.
  • Fitting into clothes. I cannot begin to tell you how much easier it is to buy clothes with breasts proportionate to the rest of my body.
  • Intimate engagement. Thankfully, my husband already saw me as more than enough. But the implants pushing my own tissue forward allowed more involvement of my breasts in affection and lovemaking.

For ten years, I had no regrets. But last October, I began experiencing health problems.

Do implants cause illness?

Most women who’ve gotten breast implants will never experience such issues, but a few will. An increasing body of evidence in recent years suggests that “silicone bleed” in the body increases the risk of autoimmune diseases and/or the diffuse range of symptoms that mimic known autoimmune diseases.

Some women will actually receive a diagnosis of an autoimmune disease, like me with rheumatoid arthritis. Others will have inconclusive results, and yet know deep down they are sick.

A growing number of women have spoken up about their symptoms, and in response, some researchers and doctors are looking into “breast implant illness.”

What is breast implant illness?

Breast Implant Illness (BII) is the current term used to describe a range of symptoms that occur in those who’ve received breast implants. As of this writing, it’s not a medical diagnosis, but rather an area of discussion and research. We’re still in the information-gathering stage, but enough women have experienced problems that it warrants attention, concern, and perhaps action for those suffering.

What are typical symptoms of BII?

  • chronic fatigue
  • joint and muscle pain
  • memory and concentration problems (“brain fog”)
  • breathing difficulties
  • sleep disturbance
  • rashes and skin problems
  • dry mouth and dry eyes
  • anxiety / depression
  • headaches
  • hair loss
  • gastrointestinal problems

(List from What Is Breast Implant Illness?

Now these symptoms can certainly occur with other illnesses, so having them doesn’t mean you have BII. Like any medical issue, you need to investigate possible causes, rule out issues, and pursue the right diagnosis as best you can.

In my own situation, I went through physical exams, X-ray, MRI, bloodwork, Covid-19 tests (including antibody), and several more screenings to finally arrive at a rheumatologist saying, “You have the requisite markers of mild rheumatoid arthritis” (RA). I followed up with my own research as well and concluded this diagnosis is very likely correct.

[Note: As part of my own health journey, I discovered obstructive sleep apnea, which I’m having treated as well. So it’s not all RA or BII-related.]

What should you know before getting implants?

Above all, breast implant candidates should be screened for autoimmune issues.

In addition to knowing your whys for wanting implants, I now believe that every woman should be screened for autoimmune issues through medical history, family history, and bloodwork. For instance, I had pseudothrombocytopenia for more 20+ years; that’s a tendency for my platelets to clump that’s not problematic in itself but has been linked to autoimmune diseases. That condition might have shown up with a proper history and bloodwork, making me an inappropriate candidate for breast augmentation involving silicone.

Allergies can also be a precursor for breast implant patients who experience autoimmune issues. Allergies, autoimmune disease, and fibromyalgia were deemed risk factors in research conducted by immunologists (see testimony before the FDA here).

You should know that augmentation options currently include:

  • Silicone implants, which are now a gummy-like substance. The silicone won’t leak into your body like prior implants did, but some silicone may slough off (“bleed”) and a rupture could cause even more spread.
  • Saline implants with silicone shells. Yes, there’s less silicone involved so they might be safer, but plenty of women now experiencing BII symptoms used saline.
  • Natural augmentation, using fat cell replacement. In this procedure, a plastic surgeon liposuctions fat cells from one area of your body (tummy, thigh, etc.) and moves them to your breast. It’s not an option if you don’t have sufficient fat cells, and the increase in breast size is maybe a cup.

Each of these has advantages and disadvantages, which I cannot cover entirely here, but I encourage you to do your homework, ask questions, and follow up if you have any issues or concerns.

You should also know that the US Federal Drug Administration (FDA) recommends periodic imaging (MRI or ultrasound) of silicone gel-filled breast implants, with the first screening at 5-6 years after initial implant and every 2-3 years thereafter. (See also Saline, Silicone Gel, and Alternative Breast Implants – Guidance for Industry and Food and Drug Administration Staff (

Why not screen for saline implant ruptures? Well, if your saline implant ruptures, the saline leaks out and your breast deflates. But there is still that silicone shell, so perhaps the FDA will introduce some screening for that at some point.

Anyway, if you get implants or have them now, you can and should do some follow-up to make sure everything is a-okay.

But this feels unfair!

When I started researching breast implants, I was taken aback by how many women got them to just feel normal. What I saw in media was the supermodels, actresses, and reality TV celebrities sporting unrealistic boobs. Even what I saw in my own community was often women with breasts lifted up, pushed out, and on display in low-cut tops.

But what I saw online, and since I had my augmentation and discussions with others, was that a lot of wives privately got implants simply to even out breasts, lift drooping boobs, or be a reasonable size. They weren’t getting them to feel boobalicious, but to simply feel normal.

If that’s you, I wish I could hug you. I know what it feels like.

And far be it from me to challenge the Word of God, but I have a question for Him at some point. In Song of Songs 8:8, the wife says: “We have a little sister, and her breasts are not yet grown.” A couple verses later, she says, “I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment.” I once read that passage and sobbed, because even at age 25, I felt like the little sister with not-yet-grown breasts rather than the woman with tower breasts bringing contentment to her husband. For a book that talks so much about our worth to God and others, why is that passage there, making too many women feel not enough? I really would like to know.

Let me encourage you to reach out to me if you need a virtual hug, a shoulder to cry on, a reminder that God really does love and value you. If I believe that God loves and values every single person, including every disabled, mentally challenged, and diseased person—and I certainly do—then of course I believe that I’m beautiful with or without boobs. So are you, my dear sister!

But I also know the grief you feel, and I just acknowledge that. You are precious as you are, but it is also frustrating to have this issue, when it seems it should be improvable.

An apology and a plea

When I got my implants in 2010, this research was not out there. I did my due diligence at the time and spoke from what I had learned. Believe me, I spent at least 50 hours investigating implants—size and appearance, surgery process, and yes, safety. I took nearly a year to make the decision to get the implants, chose a high-quality plastic surgeon, trusted the evidence I’d seen at that point, and felt good about the result. We do the best we can with what we know, right?

Yet, I feel the heavy burden of having advised others. In speaking about the importance of our words, James 3:1 says, “Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.” Ouch. Did I teach someone—even a single individual—to do something that returned harm to them? All I can say at this point is that I’m sorry.

I don’t believe implants are the wrong decision for everyone. They are the right decision for some. The incidence of breast implant illness is perhaps only 1.4 to 2% of implant patients. But that’s still a risk.

So you should be careful, get screened for autoimmune issues before implantation, do your homework and discuss any concerns with your physician, and receive periodic follow-up after.

And if you have developed an autoimmune disease and/or experience several of these symptoms, perhaps you should see a physician. I’m working on my own decision tree for where to go from here.

I’m going to end with possibly embarrassing my husband by sharing what he wrote to me after we slowly peeled back all these layers and decided the implants might be an issue.

I think you should have them explanted…. At the end of the day, you are all I need. And right now, the disease has chased you away.

“Spock” Parker

Hubbies, if you’re reading, take a cue from from that right there. With that attitude, my intimacy with my beloved is intact, and whatever their size or shape, this wife’s breasts will satisfy her husband always (Proverbs 18:19).

You can find a lot of stuff about Breast Implant Illness now online—some of it well-supported and some not. Below are sources I believe are trustworthy. Use your own discernment as you search for information and understanding.
What Is Breast Implant Illness? (
Largest-Ever Study Shows Silicone Breast Implants Associated with Rare Diseases | MD Anderson Cancer Center
Resources | BISA Nonprofit (
Breast Implant Illnesses: What’s the Evidence? | National Center for Health Research
Medical Device Reports for Systemic Symptoms in Women with Breast Implants | FDA

19 thoughts on “Are Breast Implants Bad for You?”

  1. J, I hear you when you express the grief you feel with your recent news. My heart hurts for you. I know you take great encouragement and support from your husband and his tender expression of love for you. I know that even during this time of accepting your diagnosis and possible cause of it, you and your husband will be an encouragement and comfort to other couples who may find themselves in a similar situation. Ken and I are proof that you are used of God. We had never experienced the closeness that we do now after using your Pillow Talk to make it safe for us to be vulnerable with each other. I will keep you and your journey in prayer. Love you J.

  2. I know this was not an easy post for you. But I’m so glad you wrote it. I believe the hallmark of a good teacher is not only doing due diligence for anything new they write/teach, but also being able to go back and correct their own record when necessary. You have my utmost respect.
    I’m assuming the research shows improvement when explanating occurs? Or at least avoiding further development of symptoms?

    1. Yes, anywhere from 75-90% of patients report relief from symptoms.

      Total theory here: The remaining ones may have been misdiagnosed, which is one reason why I feel like people should research for a while first—no need to take out implants if your problem is really something else—or the silicone is too spread throughout their bodies. As I said, that’s theory, because research is ongoing and BII isn’t a diagnosis anyway, but an illness that has evidential support.

      Thanks, Kristina, for your encouragement!

  3. Oh, J, I’m sorry you are having to deal with RA! I was diagnosed with it in 2010 and know exactly the toll it takes on your body and interaction with others. I finally found “my solution” this past September and it was removing teeth I had root canals done on. What a great guy that “Spock” being so supportive—I agree with him by the way get rid of the “cause” and get your non-achy body back! Praying for you as you navigate your way through this. —N Jeske

    1. Whoa, wait. Removing teeth you’d had root canals done on? I’ve never heard that. I had a root canal on my front tooth, and I have a crown around my sad poor nearly gone tooth for about 25 years. Should I rip that out too??!

      Thanks, Nicki. I appreciate your kind words and I’m glad you got to the bottom of your issues and feel better!

      1. My RA symptoms started within a year of having the root canals done which is why I pointed back to that after reading an article about it several years ago. My rheumatologist was stunned when I saw her in January and told her I was off all my medications and felt great(praise the Lord!). Unfortunately there are so many possibilities for causes of RA it can be a challenge to narrow it down. I would think if you have had your root canals for over 20 years it probably isn’t that. 😉

  4. Maybe turmeric can help with RA I believe it helps with arthritis and inflammation. Just a thought to try and lend a helping hand and help you out.

    Regardless though wish you all the best and have a great blessed day and life. GOD Bless

  5. J, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. That being said, as a scientist I can tell you that your RA might have nothing to do with your implants. I would hate for you to have them explanted for nothing… I hope you get appropriate treatment and some relief soon!

    1. My RA may well be unrelated, and I would encourage women not to jump to conclusions based on a diffuse set of symptoms but rather rule out other options. I also believe breast implants are safe for 95-98% of women, but I now have real concerns for those with severe allergies or autoimmune markers putting silicone in their bodies. I think that specific population and scenario should be studied more.

  6. My wife’s implants are for a reason you didn’t mention. She’s BRCA positive, and after watching all her aunts die from related cancers, we decided mastectomy and hysterectomy made sense to help manage those risks. She’s now struggling with many of the symptoms you’re describing, and doctors haven’t been able to narrow down a cause. So this possible new direction to pursue at least gives hope for some resolution. Thank you !

    1. You’re welcome! My mother and grandmother both had breast cancer, so I get being careful! (I get regular mammograms and did the screening for BRCA but don’t have it.) I’m sorry about that situation with your wife. Saying a prayer for answers and her healing!

  7. J,
    It might sound silly, but I believe God gives spouses the ability to mutually know what the other is thinking like entering into each other’s mind, like a revolving door, which involves emotional surrendering.

    This part toward the end really says it all, when a husband (and wife) are emotionally (and physically) attracted and deeply in love with one another.

    ” I think you should have them explanted…. At the end of the day, you are all I need. And right now, the disease has chased you away.”
    “Spock” Parker

    Hubbies, if you’re reading, take a cue from from that right there. With that attitude, my intimacy with my beloved is intact, and whatever their size or shape, this wife’s breasts will satisfy her husband always (Proverbs 18:19).

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  9. I also wish I’d NEVER gotten implants , but not because of BII. My augmentation surgery caused me to have ZERO sensation in both breasts – they are dead as a box of rocks. I feel I have missed out on so much in regards to physical arousal and intimacy with my husband . If I had an idea 30 years ago how badly this surgery would impact my married life , I would never have gotten them.
    Yes, they look good but are of no use to me !

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  11. Ladies, the fat transfer not making a significant difference all has to do with the surgeon. I had fat transfer done with the best fat transfer surgeon in America, [name redacted], and I was able to increase several cup sizes as he’s the leading expert in this field. The waitlist is about a year but he is worth it and such a kind and genuine humble surgeon. It was an answer to prayer and it is absolutely a delight for myself and my husband and they are soft, squishy and your own natural healthy REAL body tissue!

    [Note from J: I removed a line at the end as well that recommended the specific surgeon. See my Comments Policy. Thanks.]

    1. That’s great! I still suggest everyone do their own homework, have realistic expectations, and yes, choose a qualified, understanding surgeon.

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