Perhaps this is an odd topic for me to tackle. But I promise I’ll get to marital intimacy in a bit. In the recent past, I’ve been exposed to several optimistic statements about good marriages. While I’m generally optimistic about marriage myself, I’ve always bristled a little when I hear certain insights that should be […]
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If you don’t know what a “sex pillow” is, it’s basically any pillow designed specifically for sexual positioning. You can find various shapes, but the most common is a wedge. I hadn’t considered getting a sex pillow until we purchased a memory foam mattress. Let me tell you, for a woman who has struggled with
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It’s Thursday, and I should be writing a Q&A with J post, answering a reader question. I should be, but today I really don’t wanna. It’s not that I don’t care about y’all — I definitely do. It’s not that I’ve lost my will to write on the subject of sex in marriage — I
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Today’s question is a great one. Here’s what the querying wife asks: We’ve been married 15 years and have very fulfilling sex…I’m just in awe of this beautiful gift God gave us and how through our years of marriage the sex just keeps getting better. My question….I have found that if we go too many
Q&A with J: Does Going Without Sex Make You Cranky? Read More »
If you’re like me, today’s question will make your heart crack a little and/or bring moisture to your eyes: I am a trauma counselor who works with children who have been sexually abused. I hear so many awful stories about abuse and the images are so vivid, I carry them with me and can’t seem to
Q&A with J: How Can I View Sex as “Hot and Holy”? Read More »
